Literally the FIRST time I try this move I got not only a day 2 but the girl called me back for a day 3. She's in the bag. I'm going to do this forever.

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Imo texting can be a great tool if you know how to use it. When you text a woman make sure you have a legitimate reason to do so, otherwise just stay away from it altogether.
I use a 30-hour time gap between first meeting a girl and texting her. Make it seem natural why she came to mind. Let her know you were thinking about her.

*Pro-tip*: Don’t sit by the phone waiting for a text message, you have a life, Act like it.


Good reasons to text:

Share memories
Ask intelligent questions
Be interesting
Make it sexual

Also you don't have to overplay the cocky/confident vibe when texting. Just don't seem needy

Texting is just weak. Why be sexual with her over text when you could just call her? Being sexual with your voice would be so much more powerful. Calling separates you from the mob. I say call first and text once you've got her in the bag.

How many guys has she met and gotten texts from within the next day or so saying hey remember that night blah blah. You looked sexy blah blah. That happens daily for girls.

Now think about the girl who gets a phone call a couple days later. She will think "Woah this guy is calling me off the bat! This is a new one!"

It will be a new experience for her or at least a rare one. Then when you talk to her on the phone she will have to respond to you. When she receives sexually charged messages she can wait and either answer when she feels like it or not respond at all. Calling her puts her on the spot. She will have to respond and it will plunge her into your sexuality without her having a choice. She isn't going to hang up, stay silent or tell you to fuck yourself.

Call her back and say "Hey (nickname)! I was just thinking about you!" Your voice will get her invested in you.

My issue was that I could get girls invested in person but after I would lose it over text. There's no emotion or connection with text. I've been seeing this girl now for a couple weeks and I still haven't texted her once. She is all over me! She calls me!

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Only 21 me but trying to close with HB8 I know but we are living a good distance away from each other for summer, texting just seems like the done thing in UK, but just went for a phone call before. Can see the pros and cons. Too much could be neediness, so going to freeze out for a few days now. What you guys think of that situation, when is it too much?

It really is how you use it... I've had great success with text and also known immediately when it failed...
For example, I was overseas and email was the only form of communication I had with a girl I'd met once a year prior (She thought I was an asshole then too). We didn't talk for all that time and so I just messaged her one day. When I got back and she saw me, she literally jumped on me like a spider monkey and we were at her place within an hour.
On the flip side, it really is easy to become the texting buddy and eventually you just have another contact in your phone that you never talk to. Use it wisely.

It doesn't seem needy at all. It comes off as confident. And remember, you are only calling her to set up a day 2. You don't call to have a conversation so it's not like you are calling her every day. Just call and have a quick chat to set up day 2 then the next time you call her is the night you're gonna hang to confirm or tell her you're on your way.

This idea, IMO, only works if you literally NEVER text the girl. Not even once. Once you text her she immediately throws you into the category of regular chump with every other guy and you're buried. If you've already texted her then not even a call will save you. She is already afraid of you.

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Thanks for the reply mate, relatively new to this so still learning!

You'd actually tell the girl not to text you then?

I literally told the girl when she gave me her number. "I know this might be wierd to you but I don't text. I don't like it. So I'll call you sometime." Explicitly mention how I don't text. She reacted very positively when I said that. She visibly got excited and said she loved the idea.

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Julien (RSD) made a good video about phone/text game recently.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VWSf0CAwUlc

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Wish I read this post 3 days ago, I was escalating pretty quickly with 2 girls ingot the number this weekend. I ruined it I think. I'm freezing them out right now cause one of them did text back. But anyways I love this fuck texting, only after f-close. It can help add comfort when y'all are apart to solidify her emotional attachment and also some good sexual spikes.

I'm glad I decided to look at this site today ... on Saturday I pulled a number from a girl shopping at Goodwill, I was thinking about texting her just now to set something up for this Friday but remembering how I've botched the texting in the past I got on here for some tips and this is the first post I read !!!! excellent now I know what must be done, a phone call. No biggie I can do this.... but wait! I am recovering from some kind of stomach illness and I feel kinda crappy... uhhghg. well I am going for it any way, its been 4 days I don't want the number to go cold.

This is purely a philosophical idea that hinges upon an indefinite number of factors. Your theory is one I can agree with about 50% of the time. One thing texting offers is a chance to carry out a conversation without either party having to make an immediate response. I am much more prone to answer you right now if you text me, then if you call. If you call I might not know how long you want to talk.

Some conversations in a text can take all day albeit 5 texts or 50 but it's more convenient for either person. One thing that has brought me success is learning girls numbers who like to text who aren't necessarily down to fuck me but will text when they are at work and bored or can't call or at home b/c they don't have time. These are mostly social circle girls but I've got lays from them b/c they were timid to answer my calls and I got them another night at the club. Some you can build a repore with over time. If you think texting is a waste of time, stop doing it. Some times I feel that way. It does seem like this summer, texting has been a piece of shit almost

through a text she can say yes, no, fuckk no, fuck yes...chances are...

ppl are made an grown up to be good little girls and boys "nice" so talking in person makes women have to respond "nicely" somewhat... if this makes sense..

BUT THORUGH A TEXT...she can blow you off, tell u to fuck off and so on its just a few buttons and you dont need a pussy or balls to push a few buttons and hit the send button...

does this make sense?...

PPL FORGET TEXTING HAS A PURPOSE.... TO ARRANGE A MEET.
THAT IS IT.
IT IS ALWAYS THAT!

If you arrange a meet using texting, GRATS. Good, THEN MEET UP ALREADY!

Have fun fucking.

I have also fucked up a lot of good things through texting - so I think it's worth trying something different.

I am based in the UK - and like one of the guys above - I also feel like texting is very much seen as the 'done' thing and a girl might be scared / freaked if you call her after you # close her. I think the solution to this is telling her - when you # close - that you don't do text - so you'll give her a call. Then she will be expecting it and you'll get a pick up instead of a ring out and a text back.

Also - for anyone with solid text game - can you post some conversations from first text to first get together / phone kinkyness.

Thanks.

Text messaging with a hot blond last night, turned to sexting, ended with her sending pictures of herself, 1st "sexy" then boobs, then using a vibrator to my words of "inspiration". Now since meeting her ans snagging her number (at JC Penny), I have ONLY text her. we are meeting for a "beer" Saturday. There is no doubt in my mind this "beer" will be a same day F-close.

This is a very sexy, well educated, well dressed, high school English teacher.

Bitch about text messaging all you want, I'm going to continue to use this technology!

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