Okay... so there's probably been like a thousand similar topics, but still I want to ask my question. I started dating this girl that I really like pretty recently... 2-3 weeks ago. There are tons of guys hitting on her and I try to play it cool. However, tomorrow night, we're going out with her classmates and I know there's this guy that's hitting on her (she told me about him) and another guy that she didn't tell me about, but he also seems to like her. I presume that they wouldn't do anything in front of me, but is there a chance that she invited me to this party with other guys hitting on her so that she could make sort of a comparison between me and other guys? And if yes, what should I do?

Thanks in advance.

If she is really into you, its probably more of a validation for her. One for her friends to get to see yall together and she what they think yall look like a good couple together. Two to show all these other guys that she has a man. And if she has that many guy into her, she must be a really HB. Just show confidence at the party.

That is a very ridiculous idea. If that turns out to be her intention, dump her sorry ass. 2 weeks is like nothing, but you have months of your life wasted if you keep around a whore like that.

More likely though is she invited you to the party... BECAUSE YOU'RE HER FUCKING BOYFRIEND. You know couples tend to do things together quite a lot

Also she might not want you to get jelly because she went alone to a party where there would be guys hitting on her. I truly think that your girl just cares about you and you're way overthinking it.

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Also don't forget about Sh*t Tests... they happen ALOT... im not saying she is but maybe she might be testing you to see how you react... ?? but in short.. just have confidence and smile and let others know that shes yours

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Maybe she did, maybe she didn't but who cares? If this is going to be your girl you have to be able to handle these types of situations with little to no emotional reaction. Its nothing to you; at the end of the day, who is the one banging her? Girls need to social proof herself, let her do it and stop worrying about it or she will move on to this other guy who is confident enough to hit on a girl with a boyfriend in front of him.

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I don't think i've been in a relationship yet where within the first month there isn't somebody hitting on her, aslong as she says no then i cant see the problem, if she gives the guy encouragement you dump her ass

I think that her NOT inviting him to the party could be considered as a minor shit test, rather than a completely natural thing.

Also, going back a little to that comparison thing... Given it more thought, I'm now absolutely positive that it's complete nonsense. It's because girls don't compare like that. I explain...

Girls compare guys by how they make them feel. So if she wanted to compare other guys to you, she would spend time with them, together, without your company. I hope I make sense to you.

Peace,

In$tinct

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Thanks guys, that was helpful.