Well I want to say this i my first post I have been reading online for long time now and have just started actually gaming. I got 5 numbers in 2 days not alot but it was something i talked to every good looking girl that i saw at the beach those days. It was surprisingly easy, just had to get over my AA. Anyways I was sexually escalating in text with them on day 2.. now idk if that's bad or not. but i was kind of talking dirty both girls were feeling it so i went a little further. Then one said,"I think you just want me for sex" and the other one said, "im not that easy". Now i could have flipped it and showed her i was the prize but i didn't i fucked up and tried to say it was all fictional and i was just talking theoretically. This is all in text btw. I need help with my text game more then anything. So tell me what i should have done and where to go from here. I like all types of criticism but i need help in the end.

Last i just want to thank all of you, you guys gave me the confidence to do what I've always been scared to do talk to random girls, I know i'm still an amateur but in due time.

I was just thinking about that today, I saw this post slipknot posted thats petty amazing with text game. Before learning game I used to create comfort during texting and try to get to a level of comfort suficient for it to be normal for me to ask her to preparty with her and my friends.
Usually if logistics fucked me too much to be able to set that preparty, like after 3 or 4 tries I would ask her on a date. That worked every time

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When it comes to "text game" .. it really should be to MEET agian / set a time bridge etc... to SEE her again... however with the girl that said " im not that easy" you could sayy " im glad you arent i dont talk to easy girls "

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That your text game should be just to meet her is something ive heard a lot but when I try to apply it I loose every set. The girl feels you have an agenda and the conversation gets a little stiff. Insted, if you just casually chat with her cuz you enjoy talking to her, and then ask her what shes doing tonight if its a weekend day, you can arrange to see her at the club, suggest that you should pre party in the near future, etc.
Dont invite her the first time, talk about it casually, and do what I like to call inception of the idea in her head. Do inception to make her think about prepartying with your friends.
Let me explain what I mean by inception: last month I visited la, im from argentina, but in one of my trips earlier on I met this girl from la, so when I went to that city I arranged to see her.
So it had been a year since last time I saw her, and I needed to introduce sexuality or else it was going to be just a friendly get together. I had been her first kiss eventhough she was 16 and I was 19, shes very cristian, virgin till marrige and all.
Anyways, we were talking and playfighting and I said something like
Oooh you are though huh? Oh when I see you im going to give you the best hugh anyone has ever given you. (FRIENDLY) and maybe even a kiss, if you behave (ESCALATED TO MORE THAN FRIENDLY)
Of course I was not planning for her to be like ok! Ill behave then! I said that to make her THINK about kissing me, and that made it so much smoother when I actually kissed her, eventhough I encountered a lot of lmr, and she didnt wanna have sex. She was a 17yo virgin and cristian so I take it it had not much to do with me, but ill let you guys be the judje idk.
Hope this helps,
Jason
Oh ps: instead of telling her im glad you arent, I dont talk to easy girls, say I know you arent, thats why im talking to you, I dont like girls to be too easy.

But later you have to say something like oh, no I think you are way in the other side of the spectrum, maybe you are too difficult. Pleace dont quote me, the wording is not golden, but after saying you dont like easy girls y8u have toled her that you only go for difficult girls, and if shes interested she will start behaving that way: super dificult, which of course is counterproductive.

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Hey Jason that was a well explained post there. I really appreciate it. Basically I think I may have escalated to early it was 2 days after I got their numbers and they are bout like 39 and I'm 23. Of course all I want is sex, but idk should I just lie to win? Or go direct? I think I'm much better at in person escalating never had a problem with it. Now that I'm not scared to go up to fine girls maybe I will cut text out all together and just call...