So there has definitely been a recurring pattern.

First off, let me explain that I am living proof of the "All the girls I'm ever into, it never works out. The ones I just want to bang, they love me."

Here are links to the two most recent threads that culminate into instances of my abysmal defect:

1) second-date-with-hb10-vt164474.html

2) great-1st-date-she-wanted-to-see-me-aga ... 58471.html

With that said, let me begin:

It's not very hard for me at all to find women that are willing to sleep with me. I'm not an elite PUA or anything, I think some types of women are just attracted to me.

But the issue here is two-fold:

A) When I find someone I want to pursue, that is usually because of not just a physical attraction but (as AFC this might sound) sometimes I might just feel a better natural connection with someone and I tend to pursue those women hoping to preserve that feeling of elation (I guess that's what it can be described as) that this chick has what I'm looking for and we're attracted to each other. My issue/question here is, is it reasonable to pursue this type of woman, or is this just something I should get over?

B) Then, when we hit it off (and we usually do) everything honestly couldn't be any better. I basically don't really treat her any different than any other chick, but I will generally slip in some sincere thoughts here and there, and make her feel wanted. The dates are always great, we keep in touch, tell each other we miss each other. THEN, the games start playing. They start missing calls, no texts, try to make you jealous, all that stuff. I don't know how to get past this part because I don't understand what the point of it is. Everything has been so great, why would she want to start causing problems?

I've tried everything. Telling them "oh yea it's cool don't worry" to being a prick and dumping her or just giving them more space and time OR just wait it out until you see her next (if ever).

Most of the things that bother me if I can bring it up in the first or second date without sounding like a bitch I do. But I don't know how to address these things with her I guess when they happen.

Help!

But to elaborate, in both of those links above, I was hardcore deep into these chicks whether I admit it or not. I don't express it, but I really wanted it to work out with these girls.

What happened in both cases (and in many other previous dates) is I usually say something when she does something dumb. I will first be a little short with them (over texts) because not only am I confused/frustrated, but I don't want to say anything dumb.

Unfortunately...I get so emotionally stressed (or disappointed I guess that she didn't behave to my expectations) that I kinda hint we should take a break. And obviously if a relationship isn't that deep, most women will agree with it since it's just dating.

Then I sorely regret doing what I did.....it's like I have to pick between continuing to pursue this burden of a woman, or standing up and let her know I don't deal with the BS. And a series of texts follow since they typically never pick up their cell at this point. And minutes or hours later when they finally respond, it's just "look you are really nice but I don't think we're a good fit." But this only arises because of the dreaded series of texts resulting from her mini freeze-out.

I would be devastated right now, but I have already become so emotionally drained from this happening all the time.

Some dates will tell me they are surprised I don't have a GF and I usually just say something like "Yeaaa, it's really hard to find someone you're really compatible with." But really we know it's because of points A and B from above.

This is honestly really hindering my entire lifestyle because after college I became a SINGLE working professional and with the industry I work in, I can't keep doing it on my own. So I really need to get past this so I can lock down the LTR I've always wanted.

God forbid I ever end up banging one of these girls, I don't even know what to expect after that.

And also note, when I am pursuing one of these girls, they usually become my exclusive interest. But I am sure to leave space as not to come across as needy.

I ask myself if I'd ever want to try again with them if they were ready/interested again, but I don't know if I could find myself finding that to be acceptable....

Sorry so long, but I think it's pretty accurate. I really need help with this, I'm 26 male. Honestly getting to old for this shit.

Take a very hard look at this video starting at 23:50:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nIQqCDbgiAM[/youtube]

You want women to be nice to you like never missing your calls, sending you text messages regularly, and showing lots of loyalty. If you have viewed the video above, the scientific study simply says: women do nice things when they are horny.

What's the solution so you'll consistently get what you want?

Make her horny. If you can bang her brains out, then much better. 75% of men pop their loads in less than 2 minutes. 80% of women never had a vaginal orgasm with their sexual partners. These are the facts. Work it out and you'll come out ahead among many men.

Here are some pointers on how to go about banging her brains out (Check my posts and learn some bad boy bedroom skills):

how-in-the-heck-do-i-know-if-she-enjoys ... 64993.html

Check out my Orgasmic Rhythm Technique that Skills360 quoted in here:

how-to-make-a-woman-fall-in-love-with-y ... 89-30.html

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Maybe you need to start reading some relationship books since keeping a relationship going is quite different from gaming girls.

Some good books for being building a relationship without turning AFC

- The way of the superior man by David Dieda

- Hold on to Your NUTs: The Relationship Manual for Men by Wayne M. Levine

- Getting Real by Susan Campbell

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Interesting video.

"I did not have sexual relations with that woman!"

Kudos.

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