So I met this HB at the college bar last week. She came home with me, we cuddled a bit, she gave me her number but then she left (she said she didn't want me to think of her as a sloot). I texted her the next day saying I had fun and we should hang again soon, she said she had fun too and the next day SHE ADDED ME on FB. It's been a couple days now since I first texted her and I don't want her to completely lose interest.

What should I text her tomorrow morning???

Something simple like: "Hey, how was your weekend" or should I be more direct like "I was really hoping I would have seen you out this weekend" or does that sound too desperate?

If you want to build attraction and not comfort, which is the stage you're at right now. Text her something cocky/funny.

A common one.

"You know me and you would never work"

her: "why"

You: "Because we would always fight and I would ALWAYS win, I like a challenge"

90% of the time they say back, "NO I would always win"

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Not really down for anything like this yet. I still want to take it easy.

WhatEVER you do. Don't send anyting like you had in mind..

Try something as :'' Just saw a little squirl! Made me think of you. Hope yur having a good day

But really what guy above said works very very very well!
Just do it!

Take it easy? Do you want to be her friend or her lover? I wouldn't even run any routines here.. I would say, Hey how was your weekend? Doing anything fun this week?

And when she responds with whatever junk just answer her question and see if she wants to hang out.

You are letting your FEAR OF REJECTION get in the way here. Most long winded text game is exactly that, FEAR OF REJECTION in action. She knows you want to ask her out the second you send her a text, so just do it.

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Personally, I think you made a mistake by adding her on Facebook. I erase my Facebook account a few months ago because most of my friends were not on this site and it made me look low value.

Lol sure he made a mistake by adding her on fb. Come on use your damn brains, how many guys do you know who have fb and keep getting constantly laid? It has nothing to do with anything. I personally like facebook because I can talk with the girl for free and whenever I get bored I can just turn off the chat saying I'm busy or whatever.

Anyway. You can't take it easy man. If you don't do something that moves your relationship in a direction then she will think you have no idea about what you want with her. And that's instantly fucked up. 99% for a friendzone I'd say.

I'd avoid the How was your weekend stuff too. You don't fucking care about her weekend, you just want to bang her. Keep it as simple as that. If you want serious stuff not just sex then texting by itself besides setting logistics or sexting is nearly always a mistake. Call her. That's more personal.

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Well you have to look at what the point of texting is in the first place.

Do you want to be her texting buddy or do you want to have sex with her? I'd take the latter.

You should keep it simple, and keep it short and mildly interesting. Just ask her to chill again, and add some kind of time constraint.

Example:

"Hey HB! what's your schedule like in the next couple days? We should snag some food and then come and watch a movie at my place before I get busier."

That's it, you don't need anything complicated, you don't need to over think it. The simpler the better, this works for me most of the time.

I agree with fishnwomen on this. Go direct to the point.

Sexualize your texts in a challenging way..(no examples) .. evade the fear of rejection by making her chase u instead..readup on that.

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I'm interested to learn more about these. Can you give a few examples?

Yeah sexual text messages can work pretty well but you need to present a sexual frame from the very beginning in order for those to be really effective.

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The key to my response isn't asking about her weekend, it's the latter part, asking if she is up to anything fun this week? (i.e. are you free this week to bang)

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I know but then why ask it anyway if you're not at all interested in her weekend? That was my point, you can just skip that question all together and get to the point right away. If she's interested she will respond, if she's not then to your question she might start talking about her weekend and ignore the second question all together, after which asking again would just be way too needy...

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fair point. though I wouldn't ask again, I would just ask to meet up regardless of her response (after first answering whatever garbage she responded about her weekend with a haha. sounds like a great weekend or some fluff)

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