Hey guys,

Even though we aren't technically in a relationship, I've been seeing this new girl for a little over a month now (often 2-3x a week), we've had sex and are very sexual in general, and all the signs of leading to a relationship are there which I'm mostly ok with until last night.

Friday night was the first time I slept over at her place. She just recently got sick, but we had planned to go to a beach thing Sat morning and she lives a lot closer so it made sense to crash there. I thought she was joking at first, but apparently she was completely serious when asking me to sleep on the couch. I was slightly taken a back, but I always sleep like shit with someone else so I just shook it off and slept on the couch. Still a bit weird to me, but not a deal breaker. The rest of the night was great otherwise.

Saturday was awesome. Lots of touching, sexual innuendos to what we'd be doing later, great convo, etc...I drove both ways which ended up being almost 4 hours, and we didn't get back to almost 11-12 pm where we were planning on hanging, watching a movie and I suppose me crashing on the couch again until she found out her roommate would be home and they have a "rule about having people sleep over" or something. We hung out for a little longer, but eventually she was giving off vibes that she wanted to go to sleep which meant me driving 45 min home exhausted at about 12-1 am.

I didn't handle things well, but this kind of pissed me off so I basically packed my shit up and walked out. Stupidly, I came back to the door and attempted to explain why I was mad instead of being all passive-aggressive, but I was tired and fumbled through my words before kissing her and leaving. I definitely back-tracked a bit which I'm disappointed in myself for.

She wanted me to text her when I got home, so when I did I texted: "Made it back. Had an awesome time with you this weekend, but sending me home after today isn't right and you know it"....followed immediately by "Hope you feel better".

Naturally I haven't heard from her today, and I'm not sure if I over-reacted. Either way, what is the best course of action now? Honestly I'm torn because I still think it's bullshit to not let me at least crash on the couch after day drinking, driving 4+ hours, etc...but at the same time I like this chick and everything's gone extremely well otherwise so I'd hate to call things off so quickly.

TL; DR I know...just hard to explain everything w/o the context. Thanks in advance.

Sleeping on the couch? red flag regardless of rules.. I myself 2 sleep like shit w some1 else but if she was serious thats a big problem. You dont invite someone over and make them sleep on the couch... thats just bad mannered. NEXT her.

Plus you are doing all the chasing here... so she can tool you (aka u do whatever she wants and she can leave you / not talk to you whenever she wants) This frame gives her all the control... it isnt healthy in a relationship and it needs to be equal imo.

Other than maybe acting stupid as I left last night, I definitely have not been the one chasing. This was actually the first time I drove over to her place and/or planned my schedule involving her at all. It's mostly been her coming over to my place when I've been free and/or meeting up with my friends and I. She also almost always initiates text convos and semi-jokingly gives me shit for taking forever to text back, so I'm not at all worried about being the chaser.

Agree w/ you that the couch thing is weird though, so I'm still not really sure how to deal w/ that one.

First question. Are you in a relationship ? To me this sounds like that she considers you a fuckbuddy. In which case she can do however she pleases.
If you are in a relationship than her not letting you sleep in her bed is flat out rude.
You telling her that it bothers you is fine don't worry about that. She was an ass basically.
Personally I wouldn't talk to her until she contacts me. If she doesn't then oh well