Hey guys I need some advice on how to deal with the situation i am in at the moment basically i'm with this girl and I love her a lot and she loves me back we are both happy and have been together for three months however due to some culture based reasons we can't get married or progress past being boyfriend girlfriend so and due to this we have broken up several times although not for long periods of time we have still broken up. Recently she has been trying to distance herself from me although, last monday we were properly snogging and kissing something inside her caused her to be upset and attempt to break up cause of family. I was hoping that this community could help me on how to deal with this and if I should break up with her how to get over her any help would be appreciated thanks.

The mistake that you are making is that you don't know what will happen. You are only 3 months together, you don't even know her completly. Time is on your side, and who knows what happens in 2 years? You need to enjoy every moment you spend now. And what comes on your path will come on your path. Don't break up over that reason, you'll only hurt yourself.

You must explain this mindset to your girlfriend, you are living your life now, not tomorrow.

Good luck

thanks for the advice but i have tried that i told her maybe in the future things will change but she don't seem to be lisening are there any other methods i could try

What are the main reasons that you can't be together? Is it religion, status? How old are both of you?

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Enjoy each other and look for other girls at the same time (best of both worlds id say) if you really cant get past BF and GF. If this is absolute set in stone id just b friends and move on, but again it depends on what you want. Do you want marriage? If not keep this thing going. If you do id still keep her around psychically but mentally start lookin for others.

GL
Duke

sorry about the late reply and yes it is a purely religous reason and we are both 20 years old

*ugh* Maybe just tell her you'll convert if you decide to get married?

/Because you're young, and chances are you wont marry this girl.
//Seriously though, don't date this girl. Go find somebody who's more open-minded.

Disclaimer: I'm an atheist

-Wolf

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