This situation is about a sticking point I had when I was approached by a women, I was totally caught off guard and froze up. I was just so used to approachung myself and opening. The night started off great as my friends and I went to a club in pittsburgh, I was Clean and styled up for the night, my cologne acted like a beacon to girls to know the man had arrived. We walked in. It was 10 30. The club was on fire, and I was ready to join the inferno. Taking my loop around as I usually do I see my first two set of the night, I don't like rating girls with numbers but one was an 7 while the other a 9. A anxiety rushed through me like Rapids down a stream, then in my mind. .... 1. 2. 3...... "listen I need a smart girls opinion on something". I've opened. They responded. I negged. They laughed. I left on a high. They followed for more. While I re joined my friends we started to dance around. This is when it happened. The shock in my mind but probably not in yours or anybody else's, she opened me with a heyis your name Antonio? I replied with a smile, it can be... then she introduced herself and put out jet hand. I shook it and said"your hands are dry". She smiled then I ignored her. I froze and didn't know where to take it. I'm sure many of you have had this problem with this sticking point. where should I go of she is already interested? Just go straight into DHV? Is a neg even necessary? I know you guys know your shit, so I know I'm asking the right people.

Not sure exactly but never neg positive behaviour. If she gives you an IOI give her an IOI back. If you neg after an IOI you'll get an IOD back because she's exposed herself by acting interested, if you don't respond to that positively, she'll feel like you're not interested.

Actually, I'll expand on that a bit. People overuse negging. Negging is there as a tool to bring a girl who's egotistical and thinks she's too good for you (or anyone) down a notch or two. If a girl is acting into you, she's not acting like she's too good for you. Negging in this scenario makes you seem egotistical and like you think you're too good for her. It will more than likely make her less interested, not more interested!

Hey, I probably would have froze up too but probably the best move would have been to tell her to follow you to get a drink or say its too loud here to talk follow me. Then isolate her and hit her with a pattern. Use girl crack and see if she likes it. Use jokes. Tell her stories that DHV. KINO test her. Remember! Two steps forward, one step back when it comes to these things. Tell her she has a good vibe, a sort of energy to her. Say you THINK you like it. And then ask her other than her looks what makes her special? Work off from there man. Next time you will be ready