Hi friends,

I'm meeting this girl for the last couple of months, she has a long distance and long lasting relationship, they have been together for about 5 years, with a break of about 6 months where she was with another guy and then came back to him.
The first time we had sex she told me not to tell anyone, and I haven't, she also told me not to expect her to break up with him. I asked her what is wrong with him, and she said she just wished that he showed her that he wants her.

I enjoy the time we spend together not just sleeping with her, and I'm not looking for a girlfriend at the moment, this is sex without commitments and I like it, but I feel all the time that any moment she would tell me we should stop, it's like I'm in constant uncertainty.
Any ideas where the whole thing could lead? What state of mind I should have? I know I shouldn't fall in love with her.

Insist that things will not get complicated. It’s just sex. What’s complicated about that? All you’re doing is engaging in the most intimate act two people can perform, on a regular basis with someone whom you’re attracted to. Things are going to be fine!

She already set the ground rules, and you say your not looking for a girlfriend.

Roll with it.

Just don't get attached. Women are way more intuitive than you are, if you start to get the slightest bit clingy, she will simply stop returning communication.

It's perfectly fine to enjoy each others company, while your together, your attracted to each other! That's why your fucking! After all, you’re not having sex the entire time you’re together and awkward silences are total boner-killers. And, I don’t know, but I find sex even casual sex to be hotter if I find the person I’m sexing to be smart, funny and interesting.

Just don't try to make it more than it is, SHORT TERM.

Don’t see each other too often.

Keep communication, short to the point, and mostly concentrated/geared to the next hook-up.

NOTHING in the middle.

RESPECT each others space. DON'T talk about outside relationships, just don't do it.

Keep everything on the DL, and it will last until it exhausts itself without drama or fanfare.

Hope this helps.

BANG HER GUTS OUT! HAVE FUN.

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