Hi all, I am very new to the whole pickup community and have just finished reading a book some of you might have heard of called "The Game" . I am not a virgin, but have never felt even remotely in control when it comes to attracting women I'm into and doing things the way I want to. Every time I've been with a girl it's because they took the initiative to practically drag me into having sex because A) I was oblivious to them being interested in me and B) I am clueless when it comes to making advances. One time it was basically because an alpha friend of mine saw a girl was interested in me and acted as a catalyst by guiding our interaction to the next level.

The point being, I'm basically starting out at square one and have no pre-existing skill in this field, and I would love to change that and be able to attract and manage the women I desire, without relying on luck or socially gifted friends.