Bit of background story. I've been gaming this girl for a little while now. Been pretty solid game for the last few weeks until last night where I was met with a large amount of LMR. She has a boyfriend currently and has on and off for the last 3 years. I've also had a gf during some of this time but we have recently split up.. mostly due to me and my feelings for this other girl and i refuse to settle down anytime soon. We have been seeing each other in secret for the last few weeks.
Finally I had a window where I had both my housemates away and she agreed to come over to mine... I guess my first mistake was that I told her that they would be away which set a pretense, but she complied to come over. We have met twice before in a comfort location and this time we would have met the 7 hour mark. I made dinner. Things progressed and we ended up on the couch.. after making out for a couple of minutes she pulled away and said that we cant go any further physically because she still has a bf. We ended up cuddling really close in a horizontal fashion. I used several push pull tactics... which were met equally by her and I was met with resistance during escalation. Anyways... I tried for an hour and things got frustrating and I started to DLV.... (
In my head i was like nooooooo... and started over thinking which made it all go worse) I kinda got annoyed and said that it felt like I was more for us then what she did, in the end I had to try and force a time bridge out of her because she couldn't give me a definite time that I could see her again. I sent her a few messages saying that she's just "hijacked my brain" and I cant help it to explain my behavior and that it was probably a good idea to slow things down which she agreed.
Anyways... today was a little awkward and I'm starting to feel like she's going to flake on me. Not sure if its just in my head or not though. Stupid me asked her if we were all good.. she said we are fine and nothings wrong... again stupid me for dlv for asking
. She's agreed to meet up with me again.. but that's no guarantee. We have kissed again since last night however, so I'm not sure if all is lost. And she has hinted of us going to bed together a number of times in the lead up before this as well as today in a joke. I'm trying to real her back in and recover from any damage that may have been done by less serious conversation, solid text game, building sexual tension and appearing not to care to much and hopefully will get another chance soon to close this properly.
I have a combination of 2 forms of LMR.
Push/pull and that she has a boyfriend.
Those are my sticking points. Any idea's or methods that could work? Any other idea's to maybe repair some damage I may have done?
Should I re-instate a jealousy plot line? I'm starting to think that might help seeing as there was a reason for her to get jealous before because I was still in a relationship, but now that is no longer the case.
This girl is a 9. And she knows it. I now I need to properly close this, if I do she'll say good bye to the other guy.... And plus good god she's smoking hot.
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