Hi guys,

Being with a girl for more then 2 months. We love each other and its mutual, but she does not trust me and keep telling me one day I leave her becuase I am too good for her. I am fed up with this as I cannot do anything about it. She is really nice person and she had a lot of pain from the previous relationship. To be honest I want her to be really happy in her life, but I understand that if she does not trust me it is not going to work in the long-term so it is my call to end. In fact when her ex dumped her 4 monts ago she wanted to go back to her country and her initial plan was to join her family in September. Since she met me though she wants to stay with me all her life as she says. As I wish her to be happy I reckon is the best way is to let her go in September, but I don't want to dump her just now becuase it would cause too much pain for both of us and she might do some stupid things like going back to her ex or finding another guy.

What I really want to do is kill her attraction to me gradually in these two months and let her go with piece to her country so she could start a new life. Can you advice on the best way to kill her attraction/love to me over these 2 months?

thank you for reading this.

Text her +30 times a day and ring her phone at dawn (3:00 to 4:00 a.m. is good) every other day. That's how I lost my attraction for this very hot girl who kept on texting and calling. It might work for you.

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would seeing her only 2 times a week and having intercourse once a week also help?
Also does being an arrognt asshole helps? I can play that well.

Nah. Scarcity increases attraction. On the other hand, neediness and over familiarity kills it.
During women's peak ovulation periods, being an arrogant asshole increases attraction rather than kills it. Make yourself effeminate and you'll lose hot girls faster than a dog's fart.

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You won't kill her attraction, you can forget it. Doesn't matter how needy you act. You won't be able to play it congruently especially if you have the upper hand.

Tell her what you wrote here to us. Exactly like that. Tell her you have concerns about loosing attraction because of her behaviour and if he can't change than you two have a problem. You want her to change don't you ?

If you don't want the relationship no matter if she changes or not, tell her that you are not in love and break up. The sooner you do it, the less hurtful will be for her.

If a girl is addicted to you, there's a high chance she'll turn into a stalker this way. I've brought down my stalking problems to almost zero by killing a girl's attraction first.

If she's not addicted to you, AFCToTheMax's advice will work. Only you can calibrate the situation for what it is. We can only evaluate what you wrote here. So if there are missing pieces of information or your description is vague, then the advices you'll get here will only go as far as the quality of the information that you have provided.

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She is quite addictive, that is true. Once she told me if I leave she would go behind my ass. That is why I am trying to survive these 2 months and get her on the plane She told me 1 month ago if I want to leave her I need to do it now. But at this time things got damn too far with promises thrown from both sides...But thing is she still does not trust me so I cannot believe it will work in long-term. And yeah I'd wish to keep her for long-term, but that trust issue I know for sure will fuck it up more painfully in the future.

What I meant to say that you can do both approach, but I think Hellhound's take more effort. If she becomes a stalker, ignore her. I've got women like this, I just simply don't answer the phone etc.

She would be surely coming to my house or work...I'll try to bring that trust topic and chain it out. Let's see how it goes.

When a girl is addicted to you, the problem is usually more than just phone stalking. If she's not addicted to you, go the easy way. As AFCToTheMax notes, he always gets away easy which means girls are usually not addicted to him.

But if you're worried about her causing scenes in your place of work or school, scandalizing you in public, giving you suicide threats or murder threats, talking to your friends and badmouthing you here and there, invest some effort to protect your career, privacy, and your peace of mind. Girls are almost always addicted to me after I fucked their brains out. I can see based on your description that your girl is showing stalker signs.

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