This is my main SP I was hoping someone could give me some advice on. I have no problem escalating and fclosing when I am doing it in person say at a club. I have a shitload of #'s I should be able to text get something going escalate and fclose. My problem is when I text a girl I have trouble getting a convo going through text that would lead to fclose through text. If anyone has any advice on how to text a girl with the intention of fclosing and close I'd appreciate it. I've done it before but its one part of my game that needs some work.

Escalating through texting?

Why don't you just concentrate getting a date then worry about the escalating when you can actually take advantage of it physically?

I think you are being lazy and want the girls texting you "I wanna suck your dick so hard".

Some girls might do that and you have probably got lucky a couple of times but most won't.

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I see what you mean its not so much being lazy (maybe a bit). When I meet a girl at a club for example. I escalte look for ioi's lip biting what not. I can tell she's thinking this guy is exciting or he's a badboy I wanna be with him which leads to fclose no problem. But when I text a girl with the intent of escalating to the point that we go out then fclose it always ends up being more of a hey how's it going convo nothing real exciting. Basically what my question is how do I transfer my club game into texting? For example I text the girl escalate have her thinking yes I wanna go out with this guy tonight and I am gonna end up sleeping with him without it turning into a hey what's up convo?

I think you are talking about setting a "sexual frame".

If comes with risk because a lot of girls will just end up not meeting you because they think you are just looking for a shag.

The question game is a good way to get to the topic of sex via texting.

But like I said, it's a bit risky, I think you would get more sex by doing it physically face to face, because it is more in her face and she isn't gonna go dry as soon you both go to sleep.

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I've seen my buddies get shut down as well as girls shut guys down over text when they're just trying to get laid. What I am trying to accomplish is creating an exciting/sexual undertone to the convo that gets her excited about the date and subconciously thinking I am gonna sleep with this guy tonight (provided the date goes well) without coming off that I am just trying to get laid. I guess my question is what's the best way to create sexual tension through texting that gets the girl in that mindset?

Flirting, innuendos

Same as you would do in real life.

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thanks for the advice I appreciate it! I just need to work on building sexual tension through texting. As soon as I can get my club mentality into texting it'll be a whole different story.

I would indeed be a bit carefull on how far you wanna go at sexual messages on a first date, some girls realy dislike it when a guy starts bringing up sexual idea's before a first date through text messages.

I sometimes went a little overboard with texting, and got the response with the clear meaning that shes not into sex at the first date once, and i guess some could even drop off if you dont watch out.

Just keep it a bit flirty and sligtly erotic if she allows you to.

I usually avoid flat out sexual escalaltion through text. What I am trying to do is escalate not nessecarily sexually but just get her excited for the date then fclose will be easier. Sometimes it works ok but most times it ends up being a hey what's up convo.