Today I overcame one of my few fears. Approaching a large girls only group on my own as a day game.

I passed the girls and thought they were hot, all of them but one. I finished my drink and turned around to open them. They were about fifty feet away from me by now. To catch them I had to run which irked me as by the time I caught them I was a little red-faced.

Me: Hey girls. Wink I saw you walking by and I just had to talk to you. If I don't chat you up now I never will.
1,2,3,4,5HB: Laughing/ awkward looks Really, we were just going to do some dares etc.
?HB: Yeah, like talking to boys and stuff.
Me: Really? Girls do that too? Here I was thinking we are completely different. Guys go up to girls and girls just go about their lives. Tell me, How would you pick me up?
etc.
HB9: Can I take a photo with you?
Me: Am I that sexy that your friends won't believe you?

To be honest much of the conversation is blank as it was my first medium group of two 8's, a 9's, a 10 and a 6. I did not do well. I started ok but my game grew worse over the conversation. I got a photo and kino with the HB9, it was her birthday. I touched her lower back and ass- she had one of those shirts that only goes as low as her ribcage leaving the stomach and back showing. Being scatterbrained I walked off without going for a number close even after some innuendo and escalation. For the first time in a long time I felt like an AFC.

I am left with a photo- me surrounded by 18-19 year olds- and regret that I didn't get a number. I believe that the girl was awed that I felt her skin on her back and waist and held her then just walked off.

Sherlock

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Read, deduce, sarge.

You sound legit.

Glad you are facing your fears and I have to admit the biggest set I opened was a 4 set as I recall.
A couple of things: if you are already using kino on girls that has to build some level of trust, aim for that and use it to your favour. As a golden rule you might wanna give the number close for taken.

There is actually no perfect moment for asking your number, usually the best is when you are about to go and asking for it with the excuse that the interaction went pretty well, but you have to go, still you want to try again later.

So use that excuse on your every interaction, even if you feel it went poorly. Your perception of things might not be the same girls have.

Another thing is that you can start writing your field reports in one single topic, that gives structure to your progress and makes it easyier on the readers to gather all the information you have to share about your experiences instead of searching topic for topic.

Keep up the deductive work!

Thanks, I aim always to be honest on the forum. I think my greatest problem was nerves. Your point about me having built enough rapport to kino is good. What would be a good way to number close?

"I've got to go now. I would love to continue this/ take you out sometime." sounds a bit weak to me.

Sherlock

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Read, deduce, sarge.

Actually it isn`t. Depends on how you develop it, your tone of voice and such.

If you sound like you have genuine interest in the girl, she will most likely agreed and give you the number. You are showing you want to invest in her and that`s a compliment; you don`t wanna go out with a girl who won`t even appreciate that.

Timing is everything, the false time constraint is good; but don`t get too cauhgt up on it as I did, leaving the interactions always early. That gives you yourself a false time constraint habit of running away from sets.

Keep the interactions going as far as you can get, this is exactly as going to the gym: give your 100% every day.