Slowly but surely I see myself coming on forums less and less and less. My social life has picked up and I am truly blessed with a much better life right now. Not bragging, but I am in a much much better place than I was in a month ago when all I would do is come on here, argue with users, and voice my insecurity out to the world. This is not really intended for the senior members in here who have their lives together and are doing well, this is intended for the new members, AFCs, and everyone in here who is struggling.

My advice: You are miserable and insecure because you don't do anything.

Instead of going out, you stay and read the depressing shit on the internet and stay locked into your own home. I was the same way too and I even came up with excuses for my misery but then I found that most of the excuses were just that, excuses.

I know it is really hard, believe me, I have been there and done that. Misery is comfort but happiness takes a lot of work. It is pretty easy to come on a forum, share your misery, and do all that but it is not as rewarding in the long run.

I have had nights when I was bored out of my mind and decided to say just screw it, ended up going out, a lot of wild things happened, and my night was a joy. If I had stayed in it would have been a miserable story.

So rather than debating game theory, just go out, by whatever means find a way to go out.

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.