What is appropriate when it comes revealing stuff about yourself to a girl you're dating?

What kinda things do you NEVER want to tell? And what do you do tell?

And how do you tell the difference between giving a vulnerability story and being a little victim like cry baby?

At this point in my life, I am the person I wanted to become (if that makes any sense). I have no need to hide anything. I'll tell everything to a girl I'm in a relationship with, at the point when they deserve to know it.

-Wolf

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What if you killed somebody do you tell her that? You've just exposed your biggest secret and she has power over you!

Do you tell her that you cry while watching love movies?

Do you tell her that you have trouble making friends?

What if you have a criminal past?

What if you were the biggest dork before you began studying game for the last 10 years, and how to seduce women? Do you tell her that too?

If you have something to hide, you aren't confident enough.
I always tell the full truth to everyone because I'm confident and have nothing to hide.

I tell all the good, the bad, and the ugly. Why he with someone if you can't be yourself around them.

I would let it all out in due time. iv'e said some stuff to my girl i never told anybody and never planned to tell, but it didn't bother her more then a day or two. I suppose it can help establish more connection between a couple. I had a good friend explain to me how he killed a man down in mexico who killed an innocent women (I can not fathom him bragging about that sort of stuff so personally I believe him) and I respected him more for it.

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"The key is to diversify...Whatever works. It's like fishing with 7 lines in the water instead of just one. You're more likely to a catch fish that way."-PUAninja

You reveal as much as a you want. Of course do it over the course of the relationship and not all at once.

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~ASmooth

See, that's my point. I have nothing to hide. I've never killed anybody, I don't cry during movies (alright, I cried during Crash.. and I will gladly admit that), I don't have trouble making friends, I don't have a criminal past, and I fully admit to being a big dork when I was younger (hell, I'm still fairly geeky.. and proud of it). I also frequently tell girls about pick-up and "relationship game".. they love hearing about that stuff from a guys perspective.

I'm happy with who I am. I don't have any reason to be dishonest with the people who are important to me. Even if I had skeletons from the past, I'd still be honest about them. If I committed crimes, then I'd make amends. If I had trouble making friends, then I'd teach myself how to be more social and add move value to others. You just have to own up to who you are. If you are insecure about who you are, then it's up to you to change yourself and be a better person.

-Wolf

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