Wow all I have to say is it was another amazing date. I've never been out and felt more comfortable with someone, the entire 5-6 hours we spent together yesterday was non-stop fun and conversation. Picture perfect second date, the weather couldn't have been better!

The restaurant was good, I learned more about her. The transition to the airport was smooth. And I've never seen a girl any happier than she was after the flight.



Besides the butchered english, I think she liked it lol.

She mentioned early on she had to be home by a certain time, so after taking her back to her car after the flight, that was it. If I could do it again and have to spend twice as much as I did for that date, I would in a heartbeat.

At this point we both know we love spending time together, I increased the kino a bit more and she liked it. I got some flirty touches back. No kisses or anything like that, I wish she was more open with her flirting but she is pretty rigid in this area. But I truly believe she will only be that way with someone she is more involved more with, which I'm pretty sure we're getting there.

She said all she wanted to do was go to sleep and dream/daydream since that's what she likes to do after such an awesome day. And on the drive back I got the question "Have you ever been in love?"

Haha I stumbled on that one but I think it went well. Overall it was an awesome day and very thankful to have spent it with her.

*in before she friendszones you ,then you go crazy, listing/shouting all the things you have paid for her and this is how she repays you bla bla*

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Take heed of pebble's words of caution (wisdom). On the next date you better get a kiss man. You really should have gone for it this time, but no big deal. Get AT LEAST a kiss on the next date and if she refuses then it's time to move on. If she doesn't let you kiss her then she is just using you for your money. Make sure you avoid this pitfall.

P.S. nice name

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+1

Agreed, would of expected at least a kiss by now.

Kissing on a "great date" would be the best time to do it, next time you see her bro, you have to escalate, your money won't do that for you.

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@Hobbit - it was definitely a memorable date lol. Although what made it more sweet was that I was able to answer her questions with a story, because she asked me what made me think of this and why I wanted to bring her. I told her the story of how I used to fly (and why I stopped) and that I've been wanting to go on a flight like this for a while but only with someone I knew I'd enjoy it with.

I really don't know why everyone is stuck on $$$ here. She clearly expresses that she doesn't care about money, she's a smart girl. She knows my profession and probably an average ball park of what I make. She was with me in my 10 year old car, lol and it's not like she's a BUM either.

I am a little concerned with the friend zone thing, but I definitely didn't want to ruin yesterday with a failed attempt at a kiss. If she didn't have to leave yesterday, and the night went on, she would have been mine. She has been open from the beginning that she doesn't know what she wants and I'm not going to rush anything. I think it will be sweeter when/if she realizes on her own that she wants me, so I am going to keep an eye out for those hints and work with them. At this point friend zone is ok with me, I mean she has serious long term potential, I'm not going to force what she's not ready for. The next time we are out, I'll let her plan and see where she takes this.

Thanks everyone for the feedback, I wish I could write out every single detail that would probably make a point against this gold digger/friend zone talk, but it's too much. Besides, I had already paid for the flight online ($169), which she didn't know I already paid. Just before the flight, we were asked to pay the separate charge for taxes and gratuity ($40 which I was aware about), and she had her purse out and offered to pay.

And another thing I just wanted to mention, she knows I have been looking to buy a new car and I told her I've been seriously considering the M3. She says I'm crazy and should just get a normal car and that the car I have is perfectly fine. Doesn't seem very money hungry or superficial to me.

This is a problem. Women are flattered at men for trying, even if she does turn the kiss down. It still gets you out of the friends one because she knows the dealio.

You really need to kiss her next time bro, even look up a routine if you are afraid of doing it.

Get it done. No procrastinating.

Pay me £10,000 and I will teach you..

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Reverse psychology bro, a lot of women do that indirectly

Not saying this chick is in this category though.

KISS HER

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Haven't talked to her since yesterday. But mid-date yesterday she said I should come see her in her area sometime and I said I would.

I would like to just watch a movie at her place and get it on from there. And I have the perfect idea of how to make this happen

Please don't say you are gonna pay her to have sex witH you?

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Really want to see how this turns out. Hope it works for Neutrino. From what I've heard women on match are more likely to be serious about looking for something long term as opposed to pof or okc which are free. And they tend to be less of the serial dater types on match than pof and okc. Hope it works out man, just everything in my gut is saying this may lead to friend zone.

Just an update for those interested.

So we texted each other a bit and left off at a good place on Monday. Tuesday-Wednesday we did not talk (she knows I'm busy with work and studying). Today I texted her in the morning, made her laugh, told her I missed her and she missed me back.

We made plans to go out Saturday night, it will be in her area at a place she chooses. I can see she logs in everyday to match.com and I am positive she gets 50+ msgs a day (or at least several guys hitting on her in the gym, daily, online, etc.)

Yet whenever I ask her out, she tells me she's free whenever I want to meet. And I've never met a girl who has been this unbelievably perfect.

Saturday night it's game on, time to seal the deal

This post sums it all up pretty neatly

Let me clarify that earlier on I posted that she was "expecting a fun date".

Maybe this is why some of you guys see her as a gold digger. I only said this because when I asked her out I told her "let's do something fun".

NOT because she was giving me the idea to take her out and spend money on her.

1. Make her a gold digger where she likes what you do for her rather than you
What have I done? Taken her to a b-ball game, went out to eat, and surprised her with an airplane ride. Seems all legit as far as dating is concerned.

2. Lower any attraction she may have for you as you're communicating that you're buying her company.
I don't think we would have stayed for hours after date 1 just talking about anything if she didn't want to be there. When we were on date 2 at the restaurant, she still had no idea anything was planned later. She would have been perfectly fine with just the restaurant that day, we went on a walk and just talked for about an hour before the flight.

3. You're setting the bar really high early. Sure she'll love it, but what are you gonna do the top it for the 3rd date and so on.
Well date 3 is Saturday night and it's all her's to plan. Maybe some of you are not familiar with Miami, or the lifestyle here in South Florida, but as much as some of you think I'm "paying too much" or "being too nice" to her, she is probably being gamed by many other guys, so I think I'm doing something right if all she wants to do is see me and it has nothing to do with money as if she wanted a guy to take her out and buy her clothes etc, she would have found him already.

Holidays or fancy clothes ,

No difference. Anyway

Hope it works out mate.

GET THAT PENIS INSIDE HER ASAP.

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