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First of all,
I just got into all this and it's been a blast!
On Saturday, I wanted to try a very risky technique I saw on a video which you ask three questions and you end up making out with the girl.
"Do you have a boyfriend?" "Do you find me attractive?" "So why aren't we making out?"
I was hanging with my friends and one of the guys which I know brought a girl but he has communication problems (the dude is a straight asshole) so she lost interest. I swooped her up and started building rapport and DHV'ing. Well long story short we were in a park and I told her I was going to take her to the train. That's when I pulled the technique, she resisted at first with "OMG NO WE JUST MET" but still ended up making out. After that she resisted completely and tried to exchange info (tried as in our phones were dead and she had just gotten a new number so couldn't remember(supposedly) )
So we added each other on Facebook, she was giving me cold responses. So I invited to hang today for thrusday to something that I am doing. I guess she got freaked out and blocked me on FB haha.
I'm guessing I didn't build enough comfort (which is why I'm only keeping the technique for fun from now on).
What you guys think?
You didn't qualify her. You showed more interest than she had invested. It was a make out... Which yeah, girls will do for fun sometimes because they are chasing that "ultimate fun high." It's like drinking... You have 3 drinks, you start to feel a buzz, 6 beers and you're feeling pretty good, 12-15 beers, you've achieved ultimate drunkness and you are praying to the porcelain gods. Same thing happens with sex... Girls will do it just because they want to have fun. You lost that somewhere or didn't push to that point that night (if logistics weren't right or whatever the issue was.) then she lost the interest probably right when you chased her down and added her on Facebook (she may have been still semi invested at this point) right away. You came on to easy, cause again, it was just a make out. She had memory of that "fun state of mind" she was in, then you creeped her out, again it's because you were more invested than her.
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