Mine basically sucks.All I do is the interview type questions and that doesn't work.I need some help.

Basic Rules

A) Never ask how she is or what she's doing. It just gives her an excuse not to talk to you - don't give her the option.

B) When she answers the phone, open up with high energy (slightly higher than hers). Bring her energy and interest level back (psychologically) to when she first met you.

C) Open with a routine:

Example:
You - "Do you have a twin I should know about?"
Her - "No....why?
You - "So I just got out of the gym, and and I met your someone that looks exactly like you. I was about to call NASA to put you on the moon. One of you, I could deal with, but 2 would be way too many... "

D)Have stories - there's nothing worse than an awkward silence. However, when used correctly, can be an interest gauge test. For example, if you quiet down and she reinitiates the conversation; you know she wants to talk to you.

E) Always be the one to end the phone call.

F) If you want to show that you're pre-selected, tell her you've got another call and put her on hold (not for too long, but make her wait a little bit - it will work miracles.

G) If you get her voicemail - Leave a message. Have high energy and leave some ambiguity. If you entered your number in her cell - no need for introductions - just say the line. If you only got her number and she doesn't have yours, just say "Hey, it's [NAME]" and continue.

Example:

"Hey you, so I just met your twin."
"Have you ever been to Paris?!"
"I didn't know you knew my friend Kelly."
"You will never believe what just happened!"

Short & Sweet.

thats good what you suggested, but anything else? like you got a good routine to use?

Dude, the first example above is the best routine you could ever open with on the phone.

I listed 5 amazing examples - use them.

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I know how you feel man, im in the same situation right now. I might modify that twin opener to use for the FPC (first phone call). Then probably tell a story afterwards?

PM88ENG, can you elaborate on G.) Voicemail for a FPC with a girl that has my number?

Nice tips in this thread i totally agree.

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I love the idea of opening with higher energy then her that sets the tone of the convo.

Secondly open with something interesting not Hey, Whatsup, or what you doing. Tell her a story on the open.

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Thanks.What I mean is when I call I know not to just ask a shitload of open questions,but I don't know what to say to keep them interested.Tomorrow I'm thinking about calling her.It would be the perfect day,as it is Friday,but I don't want to be like every other guy and somehow fuck it all up over the phone.Like I said,I don't neccessarily want to date her,just to fuck her.

As per request by Kontrol, here is an elaboration of G)Voicemail:

A) Main Goal - Leave her wanting more...alot more.

B) Leaving a message should be like an opener - nonthreatening, very interesting, and should make her want to talk to you. Nothing is worse than a drawn out, long, boring message. Have high energy, but don't come off like a clown on the phone.

C) Use a short routine that is open ended.

D) If you are directly routed to her voicemail (doesn't ring at all), Hang up. You just got a free pass. If it doesn't ring, it won't show up as a missed call.

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I heard that you should never leave a voicemail because it shows a level of desperateness I think I read that in something that Mystery wrote

yeah i never leave messages! one thing i like to do when i get a girls number its to start off cocky and funny right off... like if i got a girls number and i call her the next day i make her guess who i am... and just keep making her guess but also throw in some other cocky and funny in there and tease her and bust her balls about pretty much anything... and shes gonna want to know who it is more and more...

Guys,

If you call and it goes straight to voicemail - hang up and call back later, you just got a "get out of jail free" card.

If you call and it rings, but then eventually goes to voicemail, leave a message. A message will always look better than her seeing your number and assuming that you were too much of a pussy to leave a message.

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