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Now my sticking point here is I need more chick friends to get better results through preselection,
How do I make a girl willing to be just friends more like my close buddies as to use them for preselection when I go out and be willing to go out just as friends with out attracting the m ?
What methods or method would u refer me to gain a solid friendship with a stranger to create social proof in the venue like I'm so used to my close friends guys and girls. I find it difficult to expand my group of friends?
Also what is the best ways to build social proof in a venue with the staff
Thanks
To answer your first question, the fact that you are with girls already will show that you are preselected. People don't know your relationship with her/them. You can grab 3 random girls outside the bar and ask them if you can tag along because you are from out of town and want to check the place out. Say you will buy them a drink for being so friendly. Having a drink with 3 girls at the bar, that shows preselection. Nobody knows how you know each other. They make a hypothesis based off of their perception.
To build social proof, ask for the manager when you walk into the place. Say you are thinking about throwing a big party at the place and want a tour to check it out. Buy the guy a beer for his time. Now you are seen walking around with a manager. People see you walking around, drinking a beer with the manager. He must be someone special, right?
Again, people will develop a hypothesis about what they see. Everyone can be bought with a simple favor and you can use the favor for reasons other than what you are asking if it's done properly.
2 tricks I personally like to use. Try them out.