Hi there, i am not new to the Game. I have been in it for a year now with great success. so first off just want to say thanks to the community.

I have just come back from university and have been catching up with some old friends. I am friends with allot of girls and often get together one on with said friend to hang out, like i would most of my guy mates.

I have had casual sex with some of them. But mostly i like to keep solid friend ships. And instead date there friends.

I just texted my close friend (we will call her Jess) to meet at Coasta for a catch up. Bearing in mind we have been good mates for 5 years. She responds with this..

"I have got a boyfriend who would not be happy with me meeting up with a guy one on one whoever they are so if it's a group thing its fine but not just the two of us."

I need some advice, i want to hang out with my good friend Jess, how and whenever i want. I don't want to comply to an insecure boyfriend i have never met. I have not texted her back yet, i am quite offended to be honest.

All advice is appreciated.

tell her straight up, that you appreciate her friendship and would like to catch up, just as friends and nothing more! if she dosent want that but still says that she wants to see her, tell her to bring her boyfriend then after that she might understand that youre not interested in her in a sexually way but in her friendship instead... or you might try to meet up with her and some friends and tell her you would appreciate if she helped you get a nice girl for you because you respect her opinion and taste or whatever the fuck you want to tell her

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Thanks Animal, that is some solid advice.

A lot of people disregard their close friends when they get into a relationship. They go AWOL. It's what she wants, though, and you have to respect that.

Take a step back, let her breathe in her relationship. If it doesn't work out between them and she comes crawling back wanting to hang out, it's up to you if you want to.

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