hi guys....this is the first time i am posting here....i joined this forum a short while ago but i have used pua stuff since 2010.....i will rate myself as average when it comes to game....i have a question here....there was a hot girl i found on Facebook....i have never met her before...Facebook suggested her and i sent her a request...she accepted....we chatted for a while....i basically used the mystery method....started with a soft neg then went onto the embedded DHVs.....she seemed to get interested....later when our conversation got deep,i asked for her number.....she said no claiming she promised her boyfriend not to give out her number....i was crushed....she really does seem intelligent.....so experienced men of seduction,how do i get rid of him? and two,most hot girls have boyfriend,how does the community address that issue? this boyfriend destroyers are really ineffective...i tried they did not work...

any experienced pua in here? your opinion is needed

im not that experienced in pua, but i have been able to get girls with boyfriends. theres two ways to get a girl to cheat on her boyfriend. 1 there has to be something in between her and the boyfriend distance is always the easiest a girl with a long distance boyfriend is usually the easiest but sometimes a girl with just some emotional drama can be done. 2 this one sometimes works sometime doesn't chat her up on Facebook and lightly flirt but don't make it obvious slowly she will start to flirt back and with some time you can get to a point where shell well see "I'm confused i love my boyfriend but i like you" what I've done before is play it off and say " ohh well were not doing anything thats cheating so you can rest your pretty head" and then just keep building sexual tension with light flirting and really i mean really light keno in person. using this method and having her boyfriend be out of state that weekend she was begging me to kiss her.
just some personal experience im going off of it might not apply to your scenario but its worked 4 or 5 times for me.

This is hopeless man, move on. You think a random girl on fb is just going to cheat on you because of some messages you sent when you yourself describe you as just an average pua? The odds here are too low to even bother. Sorry.

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Yup. Adding random girls on Facebook is one of the creepiest things you can possibly do. Think about how that would go over with her friends too dude... "Well, some random guy messaged me on Facebook and now I think I'm going to break up with my boyfriend for him."

And most hot girls do not have boyfriends. Most guys don't know how to talk to girls and the hot girls say that they have a boyfriend to get rid of you so they don't have to be an absolute bitch. It's a nice way of letting you down so you don't jump infront of a car because she didn't want to talk to you.

calling it creepy is just a limiting belief man..if you think it is creepy,yes it is!...you create your own reality man....i did not believe that it is creepy because i did the same thing before and still succeeded..yes i did cold approaches on Facebook....the girl was really comfortable with me and she was even giving me IOIs.....so what i need here is a good boyfriend destroyer,one that you can use on facebook....the boyfriend destroyers of ross jefferies are only effective when it is face face....i need a good online boyfriend destroyer...i am aware the NLP anchors are really good when it comes to destroying a boyfriend....you can anchor pain to the boyfriend and soon she will start hating him but you cant perform anchoring online......any good advice would be appreciated but calling me creepy is a negative connotation....the truth is that it was not creepy,if it was she would not have invested into the conversation,she would not have given IOIs....

Good luck. You clearly know better than us so why are you asking for advice? From my experience w/online (nearly a decade, so even pre facebook), you have little to no chance here, definitely not a chance worth wasting time on, just find some other girl on facebook who doesn't have a boyfriend. But if you insist on getting advice on a waste of time project, forget about bf destroyer, just ignore it and see if she wants to meet up in some nonthreatening way (like not a date)

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i have tried the freeze out...now it has been two days since we last talked.....what do you guys think?

If you want a woman's POV - JUST LET IT GO!! There are so many hot single girls out there that are actually available. Why are you obsessed with this one? Don't get fixated and move on.

Also, girls totally use the boyfriend line to deflect guys they don't want to go out with. I've done it and every woman I've ever known has done it. It's our way of saying "we're not available to you so STOP trying".

Please don't fall for this bullshit advice on how to get a girl to break up with her boyfriend. Seriously, are you actually THAT interested in the girl or just in your own ego by being able to steal her from another guy? Would you want some guy doing that to your girlfriend if you had one? I know that all's fair in love and war, but have some dignity and find your own woman. Breaking up a relationship is just not good karma.

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