First message is a Generic website generated message because we both rated eachother 4/5 star she then opened me and she is in red I am in black. any observations I have made are in blue.
Hey We chose each other!
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Jun 22, 2013 – 6:51pm
Hey there.
Phew, I've saved a baby seal 
(It relates to something on my profile I use to hook women)
How you doin?Sent from the OkCupid app
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Jun 23, 2013 – 12:49pm
Well, congratulations. You clearly have good taste to start a
conversation with me
My names ****.
Things are going pretty good thanks. Noticed that you mention you enjoy going to gigs and heavy metal. What dgot you into that? I just got back from download. Awesome place so many stories! I recommend it.
I thought this was fairly cocky and communicated that I was confident apparently she didn't liek this so I made a mental note and treated her as being slightly insecure so made sure not to neg her or anything liek that
Jun 23, 2013 – 1:16pm
Not a very good start, congratulating me for talking to you :/
As for the rock music, my parents were bikers, so was brought up with it. Went to download a few years ago, had an amazing time Sent from the OkCupid app
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Jun 23, 2013 – 1:34pm
Really? I thought it was so over the top and arrogant that it was pretty funny
I'm curious to know what a biker girls idea of the perfect first message?
Is that where you seen rise againt? pretty sure they were at download a few years back. Had a few songs on my mp3 that my mate literally forced on there. Think hero of war was the best one
Jun 23, 2013 – 3:15pm
I'm no biker chick haha. Haven't seen Rise Against yet 
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Jun 23, 2013 – 4:37pm
Yet being the key word
Never know if we get along maybe we'll end up going to a gig to see them in the future
So what are you looking for on here HONESTLY?
Exploring her as a person to see what she really is looking for then I can match myself to that
Jun 23, 2013 – 4:52pm
To be honest I'm looking for someone to hang out with, if it turns into something more then so be it. How bout you?Sent from the OkCupid app
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Jun 23, 2013 – 5:08pm
I'm not really sure what I want. I seem to meet girls who aren't quite right. Some bore me to death because they are self absorbed. Others want a guy to pay for everything or a father for their children , others are a bit too promiscuous. All nice people generally though. Could tell some stories haha.
So I guess at the moment I'm very similar. hang out, share some new experiences meet new people and if someone makes me feel that connection then I'll take it to the next level.Not going to rush into something just because she's there and it's the easy option.
So as far as I can tell my respone and using the info she gave me worked well because in the next message I think she is qualifying herself to me?
Jun 23, 2013 – 5:30pm
Haha, well I'd like to think that I'm not entirely self absorbed, haven't got kids (phew), and definatly do not sleep around. I have enough self respect not to have to shag everything that walks haha.
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