Newbie here, still dealing with approach anxiety.

However one thing that I'm finding really helps is sustained eye contact...meaning if you make eyes with a girl on the other side of the bar, force yourself to not look away...to lock eyes and smile until she looks away. For me, looking away was an automatic response that I had to break, but I'm finding eye contact/smiling gives you more of a reason to approach, especially if the girl glances back a few times after that (which hopefully she will if she is attracted).

I realize this seems like a very obvious thing and something that is a no brainer for anyone who has a strong confident frame and is good with women. But for those who do not, I'm finding it is a simple place to start that requires little effort and really helps lay a foundation for flirting, approaching, IOIs, etc.

Made an effort regarding eye contact/smiling and wound up approaching and number closing this HB8 blonde who was at the bar with her mom of all people haha.

Anyways just wanted to share this...helps me, might help others too.

Thanks

I can't make confident smile the way you suggest, because some of my teeth are grayish and I have two tooth missing on the side....

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http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dentist

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Walk up to a girl yell "Staring contest!" Then play with a funny look on your face. Go from there.

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Haven't had a chance to field test this but I think this would be a really affective way to pull with the eye things.

1. Girl stares at you.
2. Stare back.
3. Make a cheers gesture with your drink, or wave your hand.
4. If she reciprocates, hold your hand to your face as if shouting and mouth something inaudible, it doesn't even have to be anything comprehensible.
5. She won't understand, and will make a "what?" gesture.
6. Go on over and explain.

Or you can just straight approach her at the stare.

OK I know where the dentist is, but 2 teet implant cost 400 eur and I have 60 for the rest of the week...

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Game isn't about just tactics and tricks to get girls to pay for you..

Game is about becoming an all round attractive male, which include having at least a job and an income.

And if you are a student, then you can get a part time job. No excuses for having 60 euros to your name, how do you expect people including women to take you seriously?

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You are 50% right. But listen to this: there are reigning PUA Gurus who had less than 60 eur in 2005, and they still set out somehow, and have built themselves up since, from scratch, using pickup doctrine to make money and get chicks in the same time.

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Sooner than she thinks I'm at her door, from a world she's chosen to ignore.

Stop being so gullable and naive.

This guru worshipping will actually hinder you.

Those old days are gone where Tyler D would stay on people's Sofia's and teach game, and go out everynight.

Get your life in order and then the women will come to you.

Trust me, if you still think like this, you're about to step in the shit and be a lot worse than when you found the community.

P.s. you might wanna read your own sig again and again.

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No, No you don't know how bad the situation really is! I live in the suburb, factories closed, the 20% of the populace is unemployed, there is other 30% who works shitti jobs, 500 eur for 300/h mont, and they wish it were 1979 and a Stalinist regime, no one to turn for aid, they must buy what they are fed by a corrupt mass media. People left and are right down to their last 60eur like me, but they are often responsible for 2-3 underaged children. I am actuaééy doing reasonably well...

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You are responsible for your own life, move the fuck out of there.

If things are so bad, I can't see that a PU forum should be of any interest to you when you have bigger worries at stake (such as eating food, and providing for family)

You could also cancel your Internet since that costs money per month lol.

No excuses. If you lived in Somalia of something then you might have a point, but you have Internet , make money online or something. Take responsibility.

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Strong eye contact shows that you are 'confident', which is very attractive to women