The best approach to get her back is to sarge other girls.

Learn and polish your pick up skills. Kill off that needy, weak vibe. Surely, if you're smart enough, you wouldn't get yourself into an MMA octagon without training and practicing in the sport, and fighting a few amateur competitors here and there.

The more you chase, the faster and farther she runs away. Learn how to bait her into chasing you.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

You should never have to bargain for somebody to stay in a relationship, its not respecting their wishes/decision AND more importantly you aren't respecting yourself (this infers you're needy).

Focus on yourself for now, if it was meant to be she'll come back.

I'll say it again: where you are right now I was less than a month ago. You need to decide a few things and the faster you do it the faster the pain will go.


She won't come back now.
She doesn't want you.
She doesn't see things as you see them.
If you need to artificially hate her in order to get rid of her, do it. She dumped you, she is a bitch. Forget her. The good things will return once you heal yourself, no worries.

There's a ton of good material in here to help you rally and go out and find dozens of very beautiful, nice and sexy girls to make you get over this. Start immediately. The more you deal with her, the more time you will lose. She is not coming back, especially if you make desperate moves now. Just forget her and if she wants she will come back to you in the future. There's nothing to expect from her now.

I wish I had someone to tell me this few months ago. Don't make my mistake. The following time will hurt but it's up to you to shorten this time up. Keep her in your mind like I did and you will waste your valuable time.

I wish the best.

Bad advice. The opposite of love is not hate; it's indifference, here: http://helenfisher.typepad.com/helenfis ... te_of.html

Hating her will set you back instead of helping you move on.

Get busy. That works better. It will make you indifferent. Desensitize yourself around beautiful, hot girls.

Many of us here went through worse shit than what you're into right now. Some PUAs almost went into financial ruins after a bad break up.

Get moving forward fast. Do not wallow in pity. Do not wallow in hate. Get busy.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

Yep.
Hate/anger are secondary emotions masking primary emotions. Hate in itself is caustic, its much better to 'forgive' and let go then to stew in animosity towards anyone, particularly an ex.

OK, I know what you mean on one hand. Yes, I know what is the opposite. But I got it as an advice from someone who has knowledge on things and it has worked for me and that's why I'm proposing it here.

Follow these links, they are completely free and should help.
http://www.howtokicklovesass.com/
http://www.getoveryourexgirlfriend.com/