I used to fuck this HB 8 I work with. So we broke up nasty.. I have been giving every other hb my attention and completely ignoring her. She has sent me messages and I have ignored. She came from the other floor to my desk to start a conversation it was casual though she was smiling and flirting with me iois I figured this was some test to see if I would act like a bitch and chase after her. Yesterday my HB friend came to see me at work the ex saw her and completely went jealous but still downplayed it. (She deleted me from common social media)I texted her at night and it went like this..

Me.. Hey what's up
Her... Hey
Me.. What's new with you I haven't heard from you in a minute (she came to my desk two days before)
Her.. You don't talk to ME anymore
Me.. Me what do you mean..we talked yesterday you came to my desk
Her.. Yeah.But YOU don't talk to me
Me.. I'm talking to you know =o)
Her.. Yeah.. Yeah..I guess

I cut it off at that moment

Her..(at midnight) are you sleeping....

I did not reply

Me.. At noon today ... Hello, good morning
Her..hey
Me.. Hay is for horses
Me..we are hitting the streets at 7 so get ready
Her..who?
Me.. Me and you, I'm not taking no for an answer
Her.. No
Me..its your loss
Her..That was easy
Me...(no reply)
Her..I thought you weren't taking no for an answer..smh..hahaha
Me..giving up is not in my vocabulary.. I don't jump through hoops for anyone..
Her..OK..cool
Me..

Help me frame this so I can improve..

I LOL'd when I read this.

I used to fuck this HB 10 I work with. So we broke up nasty.. I have been giving every other hb my attention and completely ignoring her. (Why are you creating negative feelings?)

She has sent me messages and I have ignored. She came from the other floor to my desk to start a conversation it was casual though she was smiling and flirting with me iois I figured this was some test to see if I would act like a bitch and chase after her. Yesterday my HB friend came to see me at work the ex saw her and completely went jealous but still downplayed it. (She deleted me from common social media)I texted her at night and it went like this..

(translation, you were being a dick to her.)

Me.. Hey what's up

(lame, basically you have nothing to say, girls hate small talk like this, its like your expecting her to reply with a massive convo)

Her... Hey

(weak response, rightly so)

Me.. What's new with you I haven't heard from you in a minute (she came to my desk two days before)
Her.. You don't talk to ME anymore

(she hates you)


Me.. Me what do you mean..we talked yesterday you came to my desk

(are you drunk or something?!, pretty needy)

Her.. Yeah.But YOU don't talk to me
Me.. I'm talking to you know =o)
Her.. Yeah.. Yeah..I guess

I cut it off at that moment

(SHE HATES YOU, TAKE THE HINT)

Her..(at midnight) are you sleeping....

I did not reply

(why not?)

Me.. At noon today ... Hello, good morning
Her..hey
Me.. Hay is for horses

(You are pissing me off just by reading this, this isn't funny)

Me..we are hitting the streets at 7 so get ready
Her..who?
rMe.. Me and you, I'm not taking no for an answer

(Quit the fake alpha bravado pal you keep digging deeper into this hole you have created)

Her.. No
Me..its your loss

(Mr needy pants or what?)


Her..That was easy
Me...(no reply)
Her..I thought you weren't taking no for an answer..smh..hahaha
Me..giving up is not in my vocabulary.. I don't jump through hoops for anyone..

(SO ALPHA)

Her..OK..cool
Me..

(FLAKE, she does not like you)

Help me frame this so I can improve..

(My advice is to stop being a douche and just be fucking normal, your "game" and your shitty behavior alienated her, do you think being a dick like this will magically make her see the badboy in you and suck your dick instantly?)

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So what should I do .. I am trying to learn from my mistakes .. I appreciate your feedback..

You're missing the whole back story.

How did you fuck her? How come it ended?

Like I said, your bravado alienated her, and if you don't change , you won't fucking any "Hb10's" for a long time.

BE COOL LIKE FONZY

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I met her a while ago. Unlike every guy in the building I never hit on her. I never showed any interest. One day in a meeting they my bosses in the meeting started to ask for my feedback (I was a bounty hunter for most of my life) it pertained to this area of expertise. Afterwards, she started to show interest . I was with a girlfriend and a co worker said are you flirting .. She interjected and said he flirts with everyone.. I told her I never flirted with you ..tell me your name and I'll pencil you in. After that we exchanged numbers ..that weekend we went out and I f closed her from Friday to Monday and met at work. After that weekend she told me her ex is moving here (Miami) and she has always wanted it. We kept our fun and we kept fuckng all the time. One day, (I presumed dude had moved already) she came and have me the whole we need to be friends talk. And added that everything she shared with me was a lie..so she blew me off nasty.. And the next day she began to flirt with everyone around me while not even having the courtesy of saying good morning.

I moved on and went to do my thing. She began to look for me as I can only presume is to see if she still had power over me. I sadly, gave in and went out with her last weekend (man of steel) I sold out a HB 7 that actually cares for me for this chick (bad karma) during our outing her body language and attitude was totally hostile and uncomfortable ..that night i found out a friemd died.. I was distraught..she didnt even have the courtesy of saykng are you ok..lets talk about it..nada ..i told her that as a grown ass ma. I don't want to play this bullshit and all I am interested in is being fuck buddies (something she hinted at on several times) she indicated all she wants is friendship no sex as she is confused on what she wants..basically she is saying sit there and wait until I figure out if I want to keep fucking my ex..you are my second option. This is when I said fuck this shit and began to really pull away completely. So I have completely disregarded every single message..text..and advances she has made..she even dedicated some apology song to me.. This is when she showed up to my desk looking to pick up from where we left off (showing up in the outfit I once said it is mg favorite).. In short she ended it because I treated her well and in her mind I would sit there and wait for her...I figure if she keeps coming around even after I told her I don't give three fucka about having another friend, or my reluctance in wanting a relationship it leaves only sex.. That is why I took a gander..

I understand (i think)

your head is all over the place.

you keep saying you don't want anything to do with her, but then you keep asking her out??? :s

just move on dude, fresh slate, you're are only gonna cause drama in your place of work. "don't shit on your own door step" etc.

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At one point when we were hanging out and fucking from Friday until Monday and were making home made pornos and we were on a high I would have welcomed an emotional connection. I treated her to the same standard that everyone in my life has. She mentioned the ex moving it was s.o.p. sex sex sex.. She stated its getting serious I am confused..I responded with it shouldn't be we should be open to date other people..I want it to be comfortable for you and i..it didn't phase me..she cried I don't want that.
Then she told me she was in love with me an cried because I don't chase her like all the guys on tumblr ..instagram and work..

Two days later it was fuck you Patrick you texted me twice in one night you are suffocating me. I want to be friends. She kept on just being nasty and kept trying to poison the wound.. Yes I stayed away..and said I would f you only ..you go your way and I go mine..she didn't want that and even if I ignore she keeps looking for me.. So I figured fuck it .. One last time maybe we can make an angry porno ..that is why I didn't show too much interest with my text messages. I figured if a woman texts you at midnight after you told her you just want sex ..what the hell..

I do want to fuck her one last time..as she keeps coming around I can only assume she wants something. So if I can frame it to make this possible I want to learn.. It will help me with all the women I meet in the future..

So any advise on how to correct this is appreciated..

Looks like you need to sit back with a beer, hang out with some friend's and watch the football.

There are some deep routed issue's going on here.

Seems like you are not looking for advice, you are just venting on a PUA forum.

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You may be right .. Thanks for listening ..

Like.....if you just wanted to fuck her, you could just be nice to her and tell what she wants to hear..

you don't need our advice to do that, it is common sense.

You seem to have a bit of oneitus, i suggest you fuck some other women and get over it.

Get a beer, perhaps vent to your close buddies,

best of luck pal.

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I don't see where this post should be in the "Relationship part of this forum"