I am new to the whole online thing and could use some advice. At 1st I was like fck that I don't need the internet to meet girls. Then I got thinking its free available resource why not take advantage. So I took a look through pof and found this girl that caught my eye we have a lot of similar interest and I'd say she's a 9. I was gonna use the Beyonce opener but her musical tastes are a big part of her profile. She likes country music so I was gonna use the beyonce opener but switch it to Taylor Swift. But then I got thinking if she says ya I like her what are some good negs to use on her. My personal favorite is oh you must know everything about marriage and relationships :p if anyone has any better ones they would be appreciated. Also her profile says she like European guys I am not European but I am Australian currently living in Atlanta (some ppl say they here the accent others not). But I guess what I am looking for is some advice on writing an effective msg considering this girl is hot and also some advice on my opener.

Your opener doesn't really mean shit. It may get you an initial response. In order to get a girl interested in you, you have to actually BE INTERESTING. If you actually go out and meet new people, you will have interesting things to talk about because you will have real life experiences. That is why you SHOULDN'T use dating sites... Because you experience nothing new besides whatever girls profiles you pervishly skim through looking for sex.

Ya you're right. I've never really liked the idea of a dating site. I prefer to meet ppl in person I just thought well it is a free available resource why not use it? But iam really not sold on it. My day game/club game are spot on so I might just stick to that. Thanks for the advice I appreciate it!

Dating apps on smartphones are a good backup but should be a secondary source of girls.

Girls on singles sites are usually single for a reason...

I've had mixed results

Dude hands down I have met up with about 20 girls from online dating sites and there is a reason they are on there, I have ended up F closing then finding out they have depression issues and all sorts and flipping out at me, I do have some funny stories out of it though haha

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Try an opener that shows you read their profile versus a canned opener. They are much better. And make sure our profile is good. An opener is about getting them to look at your profile which should be your main DHV. The online conversation should be geared entirely to just setting up a meeting, not trying to develop attraction.

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