This happens often and I'm not sure why. Is it just harder to get girls interested in you online? Is real life game actually easier or will girls just act the same way

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post an example of one of your conversations

Post the Convo.

With online, you constantly have to keep the fire's a light in my experience.

1 day of radio silence, she will forget and be speaking some other POF guy.

Strike whilst iron is hot.

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Don't have long convos that makes it even easier. I usually pull the We should meet up sometime on my second or third message, sometimes fourth but rarely later.

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Ok, heres a few convos I've had on Meetme.com:


You: why does your profile say you're a forest guy when you clearly are a woman?
1:27am Jun 1
Rachel: You're a quick one. You've passed the first challenge
1:29am Jun 1
You: The challenge being that you're really a guy?
1:31am Jun 1
Rachel: I'm not a guy. It's from adventure time.
1:33am Jun 1
You: Ohhhh ok. Wow. A girl who likes animation. thats rare
1:35am Jun 1
Rachel: Haha! Yea your telling me. My girlfriends are sick of cartoon talk.
1:38am Jun 1
You: I personally love 90's nickelodeon, don't know about you! Cartoon Network is OK but I've always preferred Nick. Rugrats rocked my socks! Inspired me to be an animator myself. We gotta meet sometime and discuss animation! LOL
1:41am Jun 1
Rachel: Oh yee-yah! 90s nicktoons! Loved Rockos Modern life. Rugrats was stellar. i'd name a pair of rats phil and lil if i had some
11:26pm Jun 1
You: Haha sweet. Are you a Pixar person?

She never replied. Maybe she wasn't a fan of Toy Story? Heres another that stopped responding...


You
you're seriously a stand-up comedian? for real? we should meet and i should do my routine on you
10:31pm May 25
Katee
I am are you?!?!
10:39pm May 25
You
yeah i'm trying to be one but i can't get myself to go to the comedy club to perform my routine...afraid of boos...im pretty sure its funny though...im worried for nothing
10:39pm May 25
Katee
We should! Have you ever performed?!
10:42pm May 25
You
yes, in a talent show when i was in high school 3 years ago. people laughed! but i also had someone acting out what i was saying...hopefully they weren't just laughing at that!

Ok heres a MILF one:

You
damn if you're a momma of teens i guess im too young for you....you're hotttt! you know "teens" and their hormones...you're hott
2:53am May 26
Christy
Lmao. Thank you! Idk what a 21 year old would want with a 38 year old lol
6:05pm May 26
You
you'd be surprised! christy cox, what a sexy name lol
3:18am May 27
Christy
You must be a stoner lol
4:43pm May 27
You
lol haven't smoked in a couple months! i like your animals by the way...i have some exotic insects myself
8:25pm May 27
Christy
Lol thanks.
12:01am May 28
You
so why are you on this site, anything specific
1:27am May 28
Christy
I got dumped my friend told me to make one lol
9:19pm May 28
You
maybe he didn't like your lizards lol are you a stoner
10:23pm May 28
Christy
Are you?
10:45pm May 28
You
I smoke weed sometimes, yes, when I have it. It honestly helps my depression. I don't smoke cigs though. You smoke weed?

Ended there. What am I doing wrong? Should I just forget the online thing and try real life gaming? Will it be easier or will they still become uninterested.

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Real life is hundreds of times easier for me and I'm a computer hacker. You're trying to get her attracted to her computer screen. Some guys think it's easier but that is only because the woman is already horny and looking for a guy. I.e a dating web site.

Yeah I've noticed that too. I guess in real life they HAVE to talk to you, other wise they'll seem rude. Online, they have no obligation to reply and you don't even get a chance.

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agree with this.

You are also increasing your competition. I have profiles on dating sites set up as girls (part of a guerilla marketing tactic I use) and on POF, I get 20-45 messages with phone numbers an HOUR. Sites like datehookup and okcupid, about 10-15 messages an hour with phone numbers. Zoosk there are so many fucking messages, its absolutely ridiculous... Literally, I get 600 messages a day. The pictures are just average girls and the profiles aren't extremely detailed at all.

Online dating is funny... It makes the rejection less harsh... But if you say something stupid and get yourself rejected, you can bet your ass that she is going to be telling all of her friends how fucking dumb you were lol get out there and approach man.

Yeah I've done that too. Used a porn star as the picture with a seemingly legit set up to make it seem real. TONS of messages. I guess in real life you won't get rejected as much, but its the AA that kills people.

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I once messaged hundreds of women, had many good conversations, many, many rejections, a few were interested but too much distance. It's always the girl that falls in your lap when you've either already gave up or you're about to, "one last try" lol. She messaged me first and I replied:

"Hey, didn't see your message. I was about to give up on this site because most women live too far and the last one that messaged me was definitely a man lol but you live in (my city)"

I really wasn't expecting anything from that but she ended up inviting me to her house. While I was bussing she was texing me being insecure. "my house is a mess" "I hope you'll like me" "I'm so nervous". I ended up spending the weekend with her watching cartoons naked. When the weekend was over she logged onto the site and showed me her inbox. 200 messages per day.

I said: "Wow here I am thinking I'm the man because I get one message a day"

her: "I know? 200!" I kind of read from her that she couldn't believe it was happening.

I couldn't believe either, this same woman who gets 200 messages a day is worried if I will like her or not. How silly.

Then I remembered the 200 messages I sent to various women, most better looking than her. I thought of all the conversations I had with those women and then I thought of the numbers... I had a success rate of 1/200 the one girl from 200 messages I sent and in her inbox I was minimum 1 per 1000 messages she gets per week. Against those odds I did pretty good. 5 times better than the average guy messaging her, that's assuming women choose one guy a week let alone even just choosing one. I thought about how I got frustrated after sending only 200 messages, how silly.

and you're worried about only three messages when two are good and the other was going good until you mentioned the green. lol. We're all too hard on ourselves.

Cool story bro. I guess the odds are pretty against you online- no matter how perfect your profile and looks can be.

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Have a good profile, and get straight to the point re:meeting up. Also, you guys are comparing success versus the real world entirely wrong. You should not be comparing the number of girls who you open online who respond to the number of women you open in real life who respond, you should be comparing the number of girls that you open that lead to a date/close vs the number of girls you open in real life that lead to a date/close. I can have a conversation with 90% of the women I approach at a bar, but I can maybe f-close 10% of them. I may only get 35% of women responding to an open online, but I can probably f-close 80% of them. Do the math.

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Sounds legit. Makes sense to me. Although I failed math...

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Online has so many distraction such as checking FB, emails, SPAM, shopping, etc... while she's replying your message. Not accounting the fact that these women have their lives and things to do. There could be millions reasons for them to not reply. Real life is always better. Online dating should only be your backup for occasional lays. Don't focus too much on it.

Another thing I would like to point out is the fact that you didn't close or escalate. For example, you could have number-closed the first girl who happened to be into animation just like you. But instead you dragged out the conversation and increased your chance to be flaked. Strikes the iron when it's hot. Too much fluff talk won't get you anything near their pants.

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