Girls can get cabs or a bus though, right? I mean, is this girl trapped at home 24/7 unless someone can give her a ride?

There's a BIG difference between treating girls like shit and not giving a shit about outcomes. You won't get far if you walk around hurling random insults at women, but yes, I guess its better than being a nice guy chump, if you absolutely had to choose.

Don't think of women like as if they don't matter, nor should you treat them like shit, because that shows you are trying too hard to be the "bad boy". Being a smooth guy should be effortless, you can make her wet and weak at the knees without being really nasty and withou being a nice guy. Just be a challenge, be super confident, unaffected by your surroundings, don't be too available, ooze of sexuality and don't show insecurity, fear or jealousy. Focus on yourself, not the girl. Stand up tall, tilt your head back a little and make her work for it. Punish the flakes with no contact and reward blowjobs with attention and intimacy. Train your bitches and they will enjoy being obedient!

If something doesn't work for you, stop doing it (in your case , phone game). Being congruent to your character is more important than copying someone else's style. eg. My style is I'm a highly sexual hopeless romantic looking for "the one". This may seem AFC but it's deliberate and you'd be amazed at how many girls have tried to fit my description of The One, hoping that I would dump / flake on every other date and fall for them. But I know dudes who could never succeed with my style because it wouldn't fit their personality, equally I would fail HARD if someone made me do opinion openers or canned material.

Eerie, he is giving you some excellent advice.

What should you do to ensure it doesn't happen again? That question made me chuckle. You can't do anything to ensure it doesn't happen again.

I will adapt to improve. I know it. I'm just saying that girls disgust me by flaking. They are weak.

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Wow - I've been away a while and just checked on my old threads. This is 4 pages! Eerie, this is 4 pages of you arguing with yourself. Basically all the replies you've come up with to the solid advice you're being given here, is all the lies you've been telling yourself internally when the same issues come up in real life.

You keep placing the blame externally - it's time to stop. You're getting the SAME result, with so many DIFFERENT women, that it's pretty much as close to scientific proof as it's ever going to be, that the problem is with what you're doing, not what girls you're meeting.

And just from reading your experiences so far, I am pretty certain you're too caught up in the logical side of things, I do X, and Y, and I get Z. This is going to frustrate you, and it shows, in the angry language you're using toward women.

If you try to tell a woman there are specific steps to get a woman in to bed, she would laugh at you. And she'd be right.

This is all about personal development. The "tricks" are merely tips to set you on the right path. For example, yes it's usually not a good idea to win a woman with compliments, but that's not a rule that just exists in a void for all eternity - it's surrounded by a context of a society where men keep trying to do this and women get sick of it, so when you break out of that mold and show you're more intelligent, that makes you stand out and look better than the rest. There are contexts where it's really good to give a woman a compliment. For example, I can open up a woman by saying "wow those bright red shoes are amazing" because they do stand out and she obviously wanted people to notice them by putting them on, and she will immediately be flattered and say "Thanks!"

There's a lot of great stuff you can learn, but before you do, you first have to get over your sticking point - which is that you think the problem is with other women, and not what you're doing!. You should be looking at all these flakes and trying to determine what it is you're doing that's causing them to flake.

If you come off as a hard core player, they might give you their number in the moment, but definitely won't go for a day 2. And it's nothing to do with being "weak", it's a perfectly sensible method of self preservation.

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