Hey

I work with two girls who are both into me.. One of them really likes me and I really don't like her. BUT I stupidly led her on for a week and dated her once. We wrestled and stuff and she totally fell for me. I can't stand her horrible breath. I didn't kiss her but I got her number just to be nice.

Now I've got a problem - I want to date the other girl (HB). But if I make too serious a move in front of them (they hang out together), then I'm going to hurt the girl I led on (obstacle).

I don't mind hurting girls' feelings, but I'm going to have to work with both of them. We're making a movie. We're actors...

I'm simply not experienced enough to handle this situation, because I'm going to have to meet both of them again several more times. I don't want it to be super awkward...

I thought I might walk up to both of them, ignore my target for 10-15 minutes while I talk directly to the other girl, occasionally toss a neg at the HB, and then say "I've been ignoring her this whole time, do you mind if I talk to her for a bit?"

Although, again, this has a good chance of hurting her feelings. And that would really suck from a work standpoint, since I'd be seeing her again a week laterrr..... I have to do a scene with her. I have to make this situation COMPLETELY NATURAL and INNOCUOUS.

I'm new to pickup. I don't know all the intense lingo. I just read about half "The Game" and realized how far behind I am... But I love striking conversations with girls I just met, and I am okay at escalating to the point of physical contact. After that it's over. I'm a noob.

Advice would be great. This forum reminds me how cool it was to join the hacker community. >:)

K I totally just schemed up the perfect plan...

1. Say "My ex-boyfriend from San Diego keeps calling me and it's getting annoying because I don't want a long-distance or internet relationship. I was hoping you two could help me figure out how to deal with him..."

This reveals to the obstacle that I'm "gay" and so she'll realize why I was so chill with her. She'll also hopefully set up a mental barrier which says off-limits. And probably she'll get the hint that I don't like how she keeps trying to message me/text me etc. The HB will likely not mind, since we don't know each other much, and in fact may feel more comfortable.

2. Chat about it and talk about other random stuff.

3. End the conversation with "Well, we should hang out sometime, go to a bar and check out some cute guys. I've already got her number [obstacle], but I don't have yours [HB]..."

4. Call HB and take her out!

This feels like it would totally work, in my head. But hey, you pros might have something to add!

Ignore that game crap.

What you want do is induce sexual tension on the girl that you actually like.

So say, all 3 of you are hanging out, pay more attention to the one you like (without neglecting the other one)

flirt more, tease more, look at her in a (god i want to fuck you) type of way, get close to her, touch her as much as you can, speak slower with pauses.

all these things produce sexual tension, and if she is into you, she will like it.

When you get her on facebook or something, (or maybe you have both numbers?) ask her out for a PRIVATE DRINK. (ONE ONE ONE). Do not let her bring her friend.

goodluck

p.s. stop going on dates with girls you don't like.

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