coming from my professional opinion, and this might not be fully the case but I'll venture a guess: You weren't using her as a wing. You were using her as a pawn/pivot. A wing is your bud who is IN on the game with you. She sounds like she's not been let in on the fact that she is there to have an awesome time with you, but also you're gaming other women. It sounds like you haven't made the sacred wing contract with her.

That being said, she is probably getting frustrated because you're wanting to hang out with her all the time... but it seems like you only want to meet other women. Does this sound at all right?

Here's the deal. Yes, you don't qualify or apologize to a target unless she's earned it. However, THIS GIRL IS NOT YOUR TARGET. She's a friend. You need to man up, come clean, apologize... and never again "neg" her like she's an HB10 (which is totally what you did.) You might want to rethink negging her at all, since you said you're not gaming her. Playful, friendly banter aside, of course.

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That being said, she is probably getting frustrated because you're wanting to hang out with her all the time... but it seems like you only want to meet other women. Does this sound at all right?
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No, cause I was abroad for 1 year!

Im right on this one.

On which part exactly?

Bleh I smsed her to ask if she was awake she say yes im going to take an ice cream and I fell lonely and blablablablabla. While waiting for this reply I took a 5 min shower so I actually CALLED but she didnt pick it up now I got pissed. So I smsed back saying that Ive actually called and by some reason shedidnt pick up so I hope all is oki still I feel a bit sad cause she didnt pick my call. Which is kinda true. And Im going to sleep now

Oki I got screwed, just lost a friend, got her reply:
"You just caused a funny moment in my family, my mother thinks we have something how great! Gonna leave me? So im going to the night!
Kisse. Bye."

So I just lost a friend.

What do you mean you just lost a friend?

She is happy cause her mom thinks we have some kind of bf gf relationship

Who cares what her MOM thinks . . . what does SHE think? And, if SHE thinks this too, let her know where you stand.

I´ve tried, but if I call back or sms back I get into some kind of cat string IMHO, if I don´t call can she take this as a freeze out?

Yes, she probably would take it as a freeze out. As far as the cat string . . . that concept means that what she wants (you) is held slightly out of her reach. Well, you don't want to do that anyway. That builds attraction. You want to PUT yourself right in front of her. Give yourself to her, but as a friend. Let her know where your boundaries are. YOU purposely LJBF her.

Oki maybe I messed up, still, ive messaged her on orkut saying since she didn´t want to answer the phone call from a friend I would no longer answer the messages and so on. Now I got 3 tingles on the handy and a SMS. I think I´ve messed even more.

Ok, first of all, you did a freeze out, which caused exactly what it's designed to cause, her to come running back. I tried to let you know, not to do that.

Second, every time you do something, you immediately think that you've messed up. You've GOT to QUIT thinking that way. Your inner game needs major work. You have to have confidence in yourself. Now, do what I said. PUT HER IN YOUR LJBF ZONE.

In my defense I say, I TRIED TO PHONE, I wont call her like 4 times per day. I tried it once and she didnt pick up. As I said Ive messaged her in orkut wishing luck with the other dudes in the night. I´ve also added on the message that I wont call her since she doesnt pick up the phone for a FRIEND. And in the absence of a better plan I will simply not call her and wait the answer on orkut.

I have this one Wing; well not actually. She's just a friend from the UK on myspace. However she's a master trainer. Somtimes she'll wont respond and again like you I don't wanna piss her off because one I like her, two that she is hot as hell, three; just scared she'll reject me. However she hasn't so that's a good sign. I think this Wing of yours was trying to tell you using subtext that she doesn't feel like she could take you on. Or possibly that she begun to feel attraction so she's using disqualification for you to reinforce your interest. I do think she likes you and to proceed with what you say. Although she does like you, you can scare her off any moment and hurt her feelings. If I was you, I would PUSH-PULL with her. FREEZE-OUT if you have to. Let her know you're in charge and won't take any Bullshit she's trying to dish out. She's trying to get you man, if you really want her to talk with you again. Don't FLOWER her with all the kindness in the world. It won't work! Create challages for her or NEG her once in the awhile to create that insecurity in her and make her want you more. Women love to be NEGGED. This one time I told this KATIE9 that she looked good. She responded, "Yeah..thanks." She heard it several times. So I NEGGED her. "Okay, you look like shit!" I got a better response. She was happy that I NEGGED her for some odd reason. So try what I told you and tell me how it went. PEACE!

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man I don´want her you clearly didn´t read the post. iwant her as a friend.