HB 7-7.5
Site: OkCupid
Method: Inbox messaging then phone texting
Total conversation time: 1 hr 10 mins
Date scheduled: 3 hrs from the first message sent online

Blue_haze(Me):
You should message me if
you're bored
18% Enemy67% Friend82% Match Sent to ke*****

Her:
Jun 18, 2013 – 6:23pm
i'm a little bored...
Report this

Blue_haze(Me):
Jun 18, 2013 – 6:25pm
Haha. I pasted that from your profile...

Her:
Jun 18, 2013 – 6:27pm
tech master
Report this

Blue_haze(Me):
Jun 18, 2013 – 6:29pm
Let's exchange names. I think thats a good step

Her:
Jun 18, 2013 – 6:35pm
haha. i'm karly. how long have you been in austin?
Report this

Blue_haze(Me):
Jun 18, 2013 – 6:36pm
Im Robert. I've been here 1.5 yrs. Hey, do you mind if I text you instead. I'm getting pretty drowsy here on my bed. I can keep up with you better that way.

Her:
Jun 18, 2013 – 6:39pm
ok. 510-418-****
Report this

--------------------------------
Now we are texting on the phone:
-------------------------------
Me:
Hey it's Robert. The coolest person on earth.

Her:
Haha what's up

Me:
Nm. Laying here on my bed. I had a date scheduled with a friend of a friend but she rescheduled.

Her:
Ah. So it goes. I'm enjoying a short week. My office gave us tomorrow off. Also kinda excited because its my first emancipation day. Trying to keep my expectations low but hoping for a parade.

Me:
Haha. Interesting. I have today and tomorrow off. Hey, are you spontaneous?

Her:
Sometimes

Me:
Hmm. I was looking for more of a "yes!". Then I would have in

Her:
Do you have something in mind?

Me:
Well I just had some thoughts on going to a place called Bar Louie then walking around 6th and taking a bunch of photos.

Her:
What time?

Me:
9:30

Her:
Will anyone be out on a tues? Haven't been downtown on a weeknight haha

Me:
Haha. It's burger night at that place. It's upscale. We can make it fun either way.

Her:
Burger night. Ok

Me:
Ok. You and I. 9:30. Bar Louie on 6th St.

Her:
See you then

---------------------------
Here is a pdf with 40 of my online number closes all documented in detail: i-put-together-40-pof-and-okcupid-numbe ... 63876.html

THIS PLACE IS NOT FOR MARKETING

I'm having trouble understanding how your game work. I read a few of your conversation and to me, they're very bland and lack of attraction, mostly just to the point. The topics were superficial, there was no emotional or sexual connection or anything. So I am for sure that the attraction wasn't built during your conversation. Perhaps your profile or your look? Perhaps it's just the girl? She seems to be already interested in you before you even opened to her.

_________________
,___,
[O.o] .: Survival Guide For Online Dating
/)__) .:Tips To Significantly Improve Your Online Game
-"--"-

Yeah, I make my profile very bare also and I only have 2 pictures.

My style came from a lot of trial and error. I use a lot of subtle language to leverage my conversation. So when you read it, it seems really minimal and bare. I would compare my online style to natural game. In natural game, it seems like nothing is going on but then the guy gets the girl. Same for me. I use subtle hints, baiting, DHV, etc etc. I also keep my mind very clear and nonjudgmental of the girls responses or my responses.

look very closely and you'll find baiting, investment, DHV, pacing, framing, and some other stuff.

Same went for the date. It was pretty normal from an outside view. I kiss-closed her at the end.

Maybe I'm not used to your style so I couldn't see those thing. I'd appreciate it if you could pull a good number close from your 40 conversations and analyze it so I can learn a thing or two.

_________________
,___,
[O.o] .: Survival Guide For Online Dating
/)__) .:Tips To Significantly Improve Your Online Game
-"--"-

I consider the one posted here as very strong. Here is a quick analysis of it.



-------


HB 7-7.5
Site: OkCupid
Method: Inbox messaging then phone texting
Total conversation time: 1 hr 10 mins
Date scheduled: 3 hrs from the first message sent online

Blue_haze(Me):
You should message me if
you're boredTease
18% Enemy67% Friend82% Match Sent to ke*****

Her:
Jun 18, 2013 – 6:23pm
i'm a little bored...
Report this

Blue_haze(Me):
Jun 18, 2013 – 6:25pm
Haha. I pasted that from your profile...Tease

Her:
Jun 18, 2013 – 6:27pm
tech masterI ignore this response because I had no idea what she meant
Report this

Blue_haze(Me):
Jun 18, 2013 – 6:29pm
Let's exchange names. I think thats a good stepPacing. I'm also showing dominance and control of the conversation

Her:
Jun 18, 2013 – 6:35pm
haha. i'm karly. how long have you been in austin?Here is where she shows an IOI
Report this

Blue_haze(Me):
Jun 18, 2013 – 6:36pm
Im Robert. I've been here 1.5 yrs. Hey, do you mind if I text you instead. I'm getting pretty drowsy here on my bed. I can keep up with you better that way.Right here I use plausible deniability for getting the number(although I was being honest).

Her:
Jun 18, 2013 – 6:39pm
ok. 510-418-****
Report this

--------------------------------
Now we are texting on the phone:
-------------------------------
Me:
Hey it's Robert. The coolest person on earth.Strong DHV showing confidence

Her:
Haha what's up

Me:
Nm. Laying here on my bed. I had a date scheduled with a friend of a friend but she rescheduled.Preselection and showing that I have a busy schedule. Also showing that I am well-liked by my friends

Her:
Ah. So it goes. I'm enjoying a short week. My office gave us tomorrow off. Also kinda excited because its my first emancipation day. Trying to keep my expectations low but hoping for a parade. I had no idea what she meant her but it doesn't matter because I am leading the conversation.

Me:
Haha. Interesting. I have today and tomorrow off. Hey, are you spontaneous?Here is where I hit her with a frame/sexual frame along with making it a bait. It's also a qualifying question.

Her:
Sometimes

Me:
Hmm. I was looking for more of a "yes!". Then I would have inHere I keep the frame. I tease her and also disqualify her by saying she gave the wrong answer. She submits to the frame of being spontaneous.

Her:
Do you have something in mind?She complies to my frame here

Me:
Well I just had some thoughts on going to a place called Bar Louie then walking around 6th and taking a bunch of photos.Here I seed the date and show that it will be fun

Her:
What time?

Me:
9:30

Her:
Will anyone be out on a tues? Haven't been downtown on a weeknight haha

Me:
Haha. It's burger night at that place. It's upscale. We can make it fun either way. I start using "the bubble of love" which means I call us "we"

Her:
Burger night. Ok

Me:
Ok. You and I. 9:30. Bar Louie on 6th St. I make sure she understands it is "You and I" in our bubble of love frame

Her:
See you then