Hey, everyone,
I'm using the handle einstein. I thought being intelligent would help me find a woman to love. But I've found that an IQ of 150 has been more of a hindrance than a help, because I always seem to look for the logic in everything. The Game is not about logic...
Anyway, I'm here not to get laid with a different woman every night but because I want to be with the kind of women I like and to have relationships with them.
So far most of my sexual encounters I'd put down to luck or booze. Often, when I fell for a girl I was either too afraid to ask her out or got a "let's just be friends" speech. I've also always been afraid to approach and never knew the right time to go for a kiss.
A few months ago I met a girl that I thought was truly special and we connected immediately. I met her friends and they liked me. I felt she was very interested in me and I asked her out to dinner.
On her doorstep after the date I was to afraid to go for a kiss and thought I'd play it cool. I hadn't even thought of kino. In fact I had hardly heard of it. Big mistake.
The next day I sent her an email telling her I'd like to see her again. Another big mistake. She ignored me for a whole week. When I last saw her she had cooled off completely and even told me that she never knew it was a date. But on that night she wore a sexy black dress, I picked her up from her place and took her out to dinner (and paid more than $100 for a meal for two).
I now realise my mistakes and am overcoming my one-itis. It helps that she is overseas. I have met a great girl since and used a little PUA on her and we've had an on-off relationship, but it's not working out.
What I really want is to be able to walk up to any girl I like and be able to get her phone number or to kiss her. I want to be able to choose the girl I will be with, rather than hope to be lucky that she will choose me. I know I deserve this- I am a strong character, I have lots of friends and am popular, I have eclectic tastes and have been told I'm an interesting person. I know a great deal about many things and have many interests, I can make kick-ass cocktails, I'm a good cook and am also quite well known for what I do for a living. And, even though I'm kinda short and no Brad Pitt, I am neither ugly, nor fat.
I was never a beta male. But the more I like a girl, the more beta I became.
I have read a great deal on PUA and want to try things in the field but I need to muster more courage to do it regularly. I have changed my style of dressing, buying simple but noticeable tees, jeans and bracelets and am often complemented on these. I am taking steps to change my life.
I know I will probably never get the aforementioned girl and that she is probably not worth it, despite the fact that I still think of her occasionally and that- for once- I felt a deep connection with a woman. Ultimately that was my mistake- I was too fond of her, gave her too much respect and too many options and she spat it all in my face without having the decency to say "thanks but no thanks".
Girls say they want one thing from guys but look for another. Women often say they want a nice, sweet, caring man who respects them and loves them and dotes on them and buys them nice things and is a gentleman. But if you do that for a woman you're seen as weak. Women play the game instinctively. Me, I wish I had learned to play it sooner.
CHAT
