Hi guyz, that`s my firs post for that year, so I want first to say GL with the Pick-Up Round 2008 .
So, I have kind a newbie question. The situation is like this...
Yesterday, I and 3 my classmates went to a coffy. We are there every morning. So, yesterday I saw 2 girls sitting near us. Immediately I`v entered the coffy, the one of the girls started to give me EC. She was hmm -7/7.5 . And that`s all. Bla bla with friends and no girls, d*mn I`m AFC.
So, my question is: how to open sitting girls. I`m not asking for openers or some kind, I`m asking about what to do, like sitting near them, sitting with them... what ? I don`t think, that I will feel comfortable to open them while standing, but I`m wondering what will happen if I sit on the same table with them.
I`m everyday in that situation and I want to try it out, but I like first to discuss that with you guyz.
I`m waiting for the opinions.

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Great Question! What you need to do is when you walk up to them you need to run your opener and as you take a seat with them you give your false time constraint. As you finish this opener Mystery suggests standing, then saying something like, "Oh that remind me...(another false time constraint)...and another opener." Then you just go from there if you are seeing indicators of interest and are past the hook point.

*As you noticed you don't want to stand through this process as when she's seated and you are not soon you will feel akward and have less social value than she does.

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Man, you are GREAT !!! That`s the stuff I was looking for ! TNX a lot.

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Yeah good advice jsmooth.
Always sit with them if you can,
It makes both sides feel more comfortable, and kinda locks you in the set, start your opener just before sitting down or as your taking a seat, sitting is great for a false time constraint, but you have to be talking while doin this else it does'nt work aswell. Before when i could'nt sit, i've crouched down, like sat with my knees bent, so i seem less intimadating and so im in their eye line, but only in some situations when i needed to do so.

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Glad to help!

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Yeah that is excellent advice. My personal favorite is asking the girl to stand up and take your hands then spin around, sit down, and take her seat. Then casually start talking to her friends and ignore the target. But first use a few operners and make things more comfortable.

The "spin" move is a classic! Got to love it!

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