So I get this girls number (HB9)and I build up some repor through the phone and go out with her sat night. We sit at the bar, waiting for our table, and I immediatly ask her what she wants to be when she grows up? <jackpot> she lights up. I excuse myself and put a 20 on the bar and tell her to order us drinks. I come back and she has lready bought me my first drink. getting mad IOI's. We talk , eat dinner and I decide to try to change location with her. She agrees and we go to another bar. I ask her if she wants to play me in pool. We play a game and on the 2nd game, she asks me if we can make a bet..."if you lose, you have to kiss me. So I agree and tell her "if I win, she has to buy me a shot." (she loved that). So I win and i go up to her and kiss her. She leans in and i go, "you still need to by me a shot" and walk away. (also a big hit) So she gets us shots and then goes to the bathroom. When she comes out, I pretend I have never seen her before, and I start aggressivly hitting on her cocky funny. SO then she comes onto my lap and starts making out w/ me....at the end of the night she casually asks, " do you like big butts" yeah boy!
Sunday - HB9 texts me "Had a lot of fun, thanks for last night"
I write - "I had a good time, we will do it again"
HB9 - "yeah, definititely"
Now the BAD
Mon night - I call her, build repore for 20 min then ask her if she wants to go out the upcoming weekend (thinking it would make me look busy, i think it came out tryhard). She says yes.
Then to be sponanious, I ask her to come over and watch superbad (whch she hasn't seen)
She says she can't b/c of job interview.. I say (biggest mistake) well call me and let me know what you want to do (don't know why the hell i let up control)
Wed night: I call her and leave a voicemail, " hey, It's Ish. Call me "

She hasn't called back, and usually she calls me immediatly

Any suggestions on how to salvage this? Am I overthinking and am really ok? I really want to bang this freak hb9? Thanks puas

Just wait it out. I know, it sucks, but you made your choice and now you have to stick by it. I hate waiting for girls to call too. If she doesn't call this week, try again next Monday---it will have been 7 days by then, and if she doesn't call by then you get what it means.

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Just keep on sarging and it'll help you to resist the urge to do an AFC voice message bombardment. One-itis is thine enemy, HB9s are there to tempt you into it and your PUA training is there to keep you out of it.

when this happens to me, i leave it a few more days to see if she'll txt/phone back, if not i'll send a message saying hey im gonna be at soso place at soso time with a few friends, you should come up with some of urs as i think you'll rly like my friend,

i know it sounds silly but she'll think why are you not wanting her but trying to set her up with sum one else, then when she turns up, speak to her friends for most of the nite, then when ur both speaking at the end, say summin like i always knew we'd end the nite together

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HB9's are tough creatures. They ignore most things normal chicks respond to. Work with caution! Negs are VERY important with HB9's+

~kino

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