Hi guys,
Stupid question and I'll keep it short.
I met a girl, gamed her, got her, continued to date her and she responded to all the gaming stuff.
6 months later i relaxed and she started to loose interest.
I started the gaming back up and she's responding to the gaming again.

Okay - so essentially - If i game her, I have her, but if I relax, She'll start to loose interest.

That doesn't sound like a comfortable relationship.

To clarify, when I say relax, I don't mean become a pig and I don't mean gaming is a lie - it's just me being my best me. However, after relaxing with a girl after 6 months, I'm not always fun, I'm not always 100% secure. All my flaws as a human come out. Thats what I mean by relax. Instead of being an idea of someone, I am just me.

Any help?

Fix yourself. Work on your insecurities and become more of a fun person. There is no real "game" after 6 months man. Eventually your true colors show through...

Inner game is essential for a good long term relationship if you're looking for that. There is plenty of free literature and media on how to improve your inner game if you just google it.

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