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PostPosted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 2:41 pm 
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I've been dating this girl for about a month now seeing her 2-3 times a week. Everything has been great. Escalated with her fast. Always keeping a sexual vibe with her. Met her closest friends last week and won her over, everything has been perfect and then I get this text... I have NOT responded yet. Looking for advice to turn this around. And funny enough, she sends it the day before i'm leaving for vacation.
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Look I like you I think your a great guy but I can't date you. Yesterday was the worst day of my life for many reasons and I realized that I'm not ready
Jun 18 10:31 am

to date anyone because I'm still not over my ex. I don't love him it's just my feelings. I don't want you to be a rebound
Jun 18 10:31 am

I would still want to keep contact and stay as friends
Jun 18 10:31 am

But I don't think I'm ready to date anyone for a really long time
we were going to have a date last night but she never contacted me until 11 pm and said shes been in the hospital for 5 hours because her brother had a fever and had to take him. I don't believe her. Next day I get this.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 2:58 pm 
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I've been dating this girl for about a month now seeing her 2-3 times a week. Everything has been great. Escalated with her fast. Always keeping a sexual vibe with her. Met her closest friends last week and won her over, everything has been perfect and then I get this text... I have NOT responded yet. Looking for advice to turn this around. And funny enough, she sends it the day before i'm leaving for vacation.
Quote:
Look I like you I think your a great guy but I can't date you. Yesterday was the worst day of my life for many reasons and I realized that I'm not ready
Jun 18 10:31 am

to date anyone because I'm still not over my ex. I don't love him it's just my feelings. I don't want you to be a rebound
Jun 18 10:31 am

I would still want to keep contact and stay as friends
Jun 18 10:31 am

But I don't think I'm ready to date anyone for a really long time
we were going to have a date last night but she never contacted me until 11 pm and said shes been in the hospital for 5 hours because her brother had a fever and had to take him. I don't believe her. Next day I get this.
Your blown out.

Move on, freeze her out.

I wouldn't even answer this bullshit.

If she re-contacts, do not under any circumstances, give up the sexual vibe, or control.


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I'm still not over my ex. I don't love him it's just my feelings.
Translation: "I banged my ex, I was not at the hospital, and I plan to bang him tonight too!"

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 3:08 pm 
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I don't plan on responding at all.

I do have the option to meet up with her tonight though. debating whether that would be a waste of time or not.

I have a feeling she met up with her ex instead last night.


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But I don't think I'm ready to date anyone for a really long time
Jun 18 10:32 am
?
Jun 18 11:15 am
Look I am really sorry.
Jun 18 11:15 am


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 6:58 pm 
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I wouldn't push it any further just because I did when my ex did the "I'm not over my ex" line. I guess my PUA skills were good enough I turned her into my GF but after a while it crumbled because she legitly haven't gotten over her ex.

It'll just come back to hurt you if you pursue it. Sometimes it's a shittest when you barely know the girl but if you two are friends and she says that then it's probably not worth the pain.

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PostPosted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 7:08 pm 
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I've been dating this girl for about a month now seeing her 2-3 times a week. Everything has been great. Escalated with her fast. Always keeping a sexual vibe with her. Met her closest friends last week and won her over, everything has been perfect and then I get this text... I have NOT responded yet. Looking for advice to turn this around. And funny enough, she sends it the day before i'm leaving for vacation.
Quote:
Look I like you I think your a great guy but I can't date you. Yesterday was the worst day of my life for many reasons and I realized that I'm not ready
Jun 18 10:31 am

to date anyone because I'm still not over my ex. I don't love him it's just my feelings. I don't want you to be a rebound
Jun 18 10:31 am

I would still want to keep contact and stay as friends
Jun 18 10:31 am

But I don't think I'm ready to date anyone for a really long time
we were going to have a date last night but she never contacted me until 11 pm and said shes been in the hospital for 5 hours because her brother had a fever and had to take him. I don't believe her. Next day I get this.
Your blown out.

Move on, freeze her out.

I wouldn't even answer this bullshit.

If she re-contacts, do not under any circumstances, give up the sexual vibe, or control.


P.S.:
Quote:
I'm still not over my ex. I don't love him it's just my feelings.
Translation: "I banged my ex, I was not at the hospital, and I plan to bang him tonight too!"
He's right take this advice to heart and use it.


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 8:27 pm 
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have you been having sex w/her? if not then eh, you're probably done. If so, freeze out, reengage contact, don't behave like a friend.

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