whenever i go to a social gathering, I notice that the guy that gets all the hot girls around him also tends to have a lot of male friends. meaning: he is a people person, or he is social.

I will be honest, I am not a people person. I hate working with people. when I was in school, I would try to avoid classes that involved group work. I don't like working in groups. If there was a class that was required and I absolutely could not avoid it, I would refuse to work with a group, I would do everything by myself. my current job, and hopefully any future jobs, involve no people interaction.

this post is not to make me look like some asshole. some people enjoy people interactions, I dont.

so I am wondering if this is affecting my game? do girls want to be with a guy that has a lot of friends?

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not necessarily. I'm pretty decent at pick up, but pretty bad at people skills. partially because I was not a natural (AT ALL) so I had to learn everything via trial/error/reading/analysis/breaking down every step.. which worked to appear as a natural in pick up but doesn't directly translate to just regular people skills.

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He is the complete guy, the guy you and everyone else wants to be. It doenst matter if we are talking about jobs, social life and women. He got the extra compared to you, thats why he got friends and thats why he can take the jobs, where you need to coop with other people.

The more complete you are as a person, the more success you get in every aspect of your life. This is the most importent lesson ive learned, throughout the years.