So to "TRY" to keep it short, i met this girl online over mutual friends on facebook and we hit it off. I'm not trying to sound conceited or anything but this girl was hooked to me and i would literally come back home or wake up to 100 texts, facebook messages, and spam on my ask. All of it was flirtatious.

I had a fall out with a bunch of people from her uni and eventually with her cause she started pissing me off. I left for two months, but then i heard about how she kept regretting it behind my back so we made up. I was perfectly willing to hit it off with this girl when i came back, i honestly had missed her while i was gone but i was ignoring her then. But she kept going on about how she "didn't wanna date or get hurt" or was "trying to focus on her grades" and i knew it was all bs cause she didn't change at all, just as flirtatious and foolish as she's always been.

I didn't mind it, she told me she wanted me so bad but that she "just couldn't" and then she said i should have told her a lot earlier and it was all my fault. But she still wants to be close friends.

When i came back i made some flirty talk or advances, but she kept shutting me down so i gave up on her. But every once in a while i'll get a rant about how she misses our old friendship and how close we were.

Lately everytime she rants i turn her down and tell her to stop wasting my time and hers. So now she resorts to talking about this one guy in her Uni EVERY SINGLE TIME we talk. I knew these two were close but it's actually really funny because she turned him down again and again for me and keeps telling me she loves me and not me. I tried to be nice but it's getting on my nerves.

Her: heyyy
Me: hey
her: what's up?
Me: nm just chilling, u?
her: nice nice omg i gotta tell u something
me: (i know what's coming) what is it :')
her: so you know *insert name of the guy she apparently never liked more then me*?
me: yeah?
her: today he bought me a really nice bracelet *sends me pics*
me: good for him
her; yeah so sup?

this is literally every conversation i have with this chick and it's starting to piss me off. Before every time we talked i felt regret cause we were so close and i really liked her but i never made most of it cause i was busy with my soccer season. Now i'm just plain fed up. Everytime we talk i just act like i couldn't care less about our old relationship or this guy she keeps mentioning.

What should i do? i guess one of the things is to find a way to distance myself from this chick, so she knows she lost me when she turned down a relationship. The second thing is how to react to her making me jealous. If she doesn't wanna date, why does she act so close to this guy. i know they're close but sheesh i can't remember how many times she told me she doesn't like him but loves me. I just say "good for him" everytime, is making it seem like my life is more exciting worth it. Or should i just leave this chick?

damn i know this is in no way short but if someone could help me out, it'd be really appreciated :/

You've been friendzoned my dude.

You know that's what i thought at the beginning too, so i just moved on.

But every once in a while i'll get a "i miss our relationship" or "why didn't you ask me then" or "this is so hard for me" and i'll just be sitting there like "wuh"?

I'll ignore this girl for 10 days, and then get a message or text saying she really really needs me, and then a rant on how she misses "us."

You think i should just move on?

Yup. She is hungry for attention. Forget about her.

Perfect, just what i needed.

Any tips on forgetting a girl you were deathly close too, and who wants to reel you in like you mean the world to her, and then toss u out if u make an advance?

"deathly close to" smacks of stalker. Move on.

works for me, thanks guys.

You got good honest advice. This girl has put you into the friend zone of no return, saying she misses your relationship is pretty much saying I missed you being my emotional tampon. Game other girls and move on, do not give her anymore attention as she is just using you to throw all of her emotional bs problems on.

she's a sociopath... from now on, she doesn't exist to you

^^uh huh! This bitch is crazy. She's getting entertainment from playing mind games. Let her drag someone else down man. Sounds to mike like you dodged a bullet.

Women lose all their power when they realize they're replaceable. Go sarging, get some numbers, laugh at her when she texts you, and you won't even be thinking about her.