So I've had so decent success on OKC with girls who list "casual sex" in their "looking for" section, adn with those who also have questions answered clearly indicating their interest in dating for sex. I've gon so far to go on first dates with them, and I have one coming up tomorrow. I have a few questions:

This one girl I am going out with tomorrow is texting a lot, regular casual talk. Do I show that I care? act as if I care? Go along with it?

And...lets say we go out and seem to get along...I am a pretty nice guy in person, but I do not want to get into a "relationship" zone or "friend" zone....how do I safely test the waters to see if she really is open to something FWB, and how to then pursue it smoothly without blowing the whole thing up? When do I mention it? hint to it? flirt with the idea of it while not coming off as desperate or jumping the gun?

Thanks.

Woah, slow down dude. You haven't even fucked this girl yet. If she asks, then just a casual "let's see what happens" after you've built a physical connection will do. I wouldn't even use the term FWB. The morning after when she is leaving is usually a good time to say, "I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now but I'd like to see you again; we had fun last night and so far I really like you" or whatever fits your situation / level of emotional connection.

Fact is, you're meeting off a casual hookups / NSA dating site, so her expectations are probably similar to yours.

i find you don't even need to filter by casual sex to get laid on okc...

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