| good points in this thread,
not really worth it, great time to bounce after a girl says she not single since it's either true or she is currently not interested
in either case it is likely less then ideal since single girls offer less logistical problems, easier to just find a single girl then to deal with a defensive girl looking out for her guy, or a defensive guy guarding his girl, or to deal with a crew of friends helping her make the ''right'' choices, on top of that if you put in the effort to get beyond all that and it's going good, how are you going to be able to trust some girl that broke some other guys trust with you, and OTOH after going through all the shitty logistics and successfully getting her alone and comfortable with you, she can just flirt with you and play around until she is turned on and just go back to her boyfriend at the end of the night instead of going home with you
single girls don't present these kind of problems to the same degree, it's like the same logistics but there is less of a moral impact, so if she likes you and you guys are a team, you can deal with the friends and location more easily and there are less problems that are bound to present themselves
if by don't care you mean girls that are unavailable are a turn on for you and you would like to actively seek out girls that are not single, then just be honest about not caring, allow her to feel as comfortable as possible about it by putting the responsibility in your hands and being non-judgemental about it, you don't have to make jokes or anything, just make sure it as easy for her as possible, let her know it's ok with you and keep it as secretive as possible, use as much discretion as possible and let her know you are on her team and will help her get away with it
and if she's really not into it, don't be needy, just let it go and keep meeting people
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