| Whats up fellas im bihfutball and im pretty new to MPUAForum, but not new to pickup. Im dealing with a situation right now that involves my girlfriends friend (whos also a girl obviously). To put it plainly, my goal is to have sex with this girl. Now before I get into the situation I just want to say that I know that some of you may think that this is wrong, but ive had my eye on this girl for a long time and REALLY want her.
Alright so for the sake of the story im gonna call this girl Stacy. Stacy is the kind of girl that always gets guys. Not that shes a slut, but shes always getting attention from guys. And to make things more complicated shes a flirt. Maybe even a flirt without actual intention, which is BS if you ask me. If you're gonna flirt then mean it. Anyway so Stacy always hangs out with guys even when she has a boyfriend. But as far as anyone knows, shes never cheated on a bf, but she has been cheated on. You see Stacy and my gf are good friends so they tell each other things and sometimes i find out random stuff. To continue the story, Stacy lives in a city that both me and my gf are from but dont live there during school because we go to college in another city an hour away. Well its summer time, and we're back. Since my gf is good friends with Stacy and they're always hanging out, i tend to be around alot of the time. Well Stacy has been giving me IOI's here and there. To start off the first day I saw her since coming back (and ive known Stacy for a long time), she acted really interested in how I had been doing and we seemed to be generally interested in each other. Stacy has a bf right now btw. Nothing much happened that night, we all went out (with a bunch of other people) and drank a bit. Couple nights later a group of us including my gf and Stacy go out to a bowling alley. This is when her flirting started to kick in. I was the last one there because I had been running a little late, and as soon as I got there and she saw me I could tell she lit up. So me and my gf go to pay for a round and get some shoes, when all the sudden here comes Stacy. She kinda nudges me with her foot, hugs me and we start talking about random stuff. Take note, my gf is standing right there paying. I play it cool, smile and act generally interested (i mean i am afterall). After that we start playing a bit and then I decide to go get some alcohol to drink, my gf stays. Guess who comes running with me...Stacy. So we go to the bar, which is in a closed area where its separated from the bowling alley, and we talk, laugh, smile, blah blah. Now before I keep going, I never had much of an intention to sleep with this girl until recently. Why? I didnt want to, believed it was wrong. Still do, but I realized shes so fine and I needed to have her. Even after she literally placed her hand in mine, fingers locked, and squeezed, just about a year ago at her birthday dinner, I still didnt want to pursue her. Thinking about it now, I should have that was the best chance, but what can I do? So back to the bowling alley...we go back and start playing. Another girl was there with us and I was purposefully talking to her and my gf a bit more than Stacy to maybe trigger a bit of jealousy in her. Afterall she loves being the center of guys attention. Craves it. Well while we were playing I cant lie we were flirting at times. A couple times I would go to shoot for her, during her turn just to be playful, and she was chase me down and grab me around my stomach and hips so as to "stop me". lol. She did this a couple time and we even started shooting together during our turns so we could get more pins. I initiated this because it brings us together and whatnot. So after this night I decided to start texting her. This is where is gets complicated. We never text. mostly because I hadnt intended on sleeping with her until recently. So we text a bit and im trying to make it interesting, to grab her attention, while also trying to make her smile and whatnot. Neg her a couple times, which she responds well to. I wait a bit to respond to her texts so as not to seem needy. In other words, im taking the necessary steps. So at one point we're texting about this movie we're all supposed to go see, but shes acting a little standoffish. Its a shit test. So I break down her wall and I get her to laugh and she starts texting me back quickly. Anyway after this i tell her i might not go because she seemed so serious about the whole thing. She starts begging me to go, I tell her no but not in a serious way, moreso playful. She gets sad about it and I tell her "we're just gonna have to see each other another time". hoping to put an emphasis on the WE in her brain, so that she see's that we're in a sense together. She tells me I suck lol and we go our separate ways for the night. The very next night I leave my place to go to my buddys to drink, and all the sudden a car drives by my driveway as im trying to get on the road and it honks at me 3 times. I look and its Stacy. Heres the thing, Stacy lives in the same neighborhood as me but the neighborhood is split up into two sections, me in one and her in the other. There is literally no need for her to go into my side from the direction that she was going. I think she was driving my way just in the slight chance that she ends up passing me, and she did. So we're driving in the same direction, get to a stop and we start talking while waiting at the light. She seemed interested in what i was doing and who i was going to be with, would have invited her but i knew she was going to the same movie again but with her bf this time, so i didnt bother. Either way, it wasn't a bad encounter. The next day I text her send her a text telling her that I told her I knew the movie was going to be stupid (which was one of my reasons that I told her for not going the first time). She told me the movie was dumb so I tried to poke fun at her but to my stupidity I did it cocky funny. And guess what? I didnt get a reply back the whole damn day. Fail. So to make her think that I really dont care, I didnt text back at all and still havent (this was 4 days ago). In the mean time however, last night, me and my gf went to a hot tub party with a bunch of people and she was there. She acted a little strange though. I usually give her hugs when I see her and leave, but this time she was hesitant, but we still hugged. Talked to her a bit, laughed and smiled, and tried to make it seem like I didnt care that she didnt text back. I specifically tried not to focus on her too much so I was talking to a bunch of other people and doing my thing. Well afterwards we get in the hot tub and im the last one to get in. I bring my towel put it on the table, kiss my gf while shes watching, and get in. couple minutes later she gets out to get a drink and takes MY towel to dry off, which i stop and yell at her and start making fun of her for doing that. trying to be playful. I wanna note that she didnt show me any IOI's during this party, but she did give me one of her beers without me even asking for one. She just gave it to me. And I actually brought my own case. I know thats not an IOI but what could it be? Night goes on, shes texting a bunch, seems pissed, in which then her and her friend leave. We were all trying to figure out why Stacy seemed annoyed and we thought it might have been because of her bf. See things havnt been good between them, and they havnt even been together but like a month. But still in the back of my mind I couldnt help but think was she pissed about me. While in the tub she was looking at me a good bit but had a straight face. It was odd. Did I piss her off? I dont think so, my text to her wasnt mean or anything just cocky funny.
Stacy is a big flirt, so im trying to figure out if shes simply flirting with me for fun or does she have intentions? I still havnt texted her back since, and its been 5 days. If anyone can help I would be extremely grateful. This is a girl that Ive wanted for a long long time but never really pursued until now. Im open to thoughts, because my goal is to get her. And if you think you know what I did wrong, or what I should do next, please feel free to tell me.
Thanks alot everybody
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