Okay so just about gave up on pof and deleted my profile then noticed a cute girl finally became my mutual match and thought to give it a shot anyone have tips so I don't screw it up.

me: 6/16/2013 1:13:41 PM
Hey hows it going we match! Wanna take some adventures

her: 6/16/2013 1:17:18 PM
Ok lets go to XXXXXXX! (The place I'm moving)

me: 6/16/2013 1:23:38 PM
Ill be heading down there August 1st is my move in date, what do you like to do in XXXXXXX?

her: 6/16/2013 1:50:45 PM
Well I usually like to walk along the seawall

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Think I totally blew it already told her to imagine us doing something much cooler then walking along the seawall like Rollerblading lol!

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Well, that's too bad. You were very close to closing. You lucked out and skipped to U in GALNUC.

I don't really feel like writing what GALNUC means. Just pick up a copy of Day Bang.

You could try to save the interaction by closing the GALNUC routine and going from U (usually i.e. what do you usually do for fun) into the C (i.e. well, you seem cool. We should meet up sometime and do X so we can talk more, blah blah blah).

To save the interaction try this.

You: I was kidding about the rollerblading thing. I hope you can take a joke.
Her: (hit or miss)
if you get a bite, then close GALNUC and you're home free.

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Well I wasn't to worried about a response but she gave me one, not sure were to roll with this one women are naturally imbalanced that might to insulting. Also I'm a marketer at heart so I was thinking of giving her a link to purchase one of those balance bands that offer a placebo effect. Or something like if you fall Ill catch/carry you

"her: Oh wow I hope you have balance because I don't!"

If I go for number though I have to carry conversation for month and half she might lose interest I don't like really to text that often?

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Thought maybe I needed help but I still got it pulled the number close after this one

"me: Tell you what if you are ever about to fall I will catch you.
Now how bout u hand over that phone number *insert your name as well*'

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I say it here all the time, and I will say it again. ONLINE PICKUP AND LIVE PICKUP ARE NOT THE SAME.

A lot of the DHV, cocky/funny etc. should have already been done in your profile and/or your opening message. After that the goal of messaging is to GET A DATE. PERIOD. You do not need to go crazy trying to DHV, play mind games, NLP, C/F etc. to get a date. YOU JUST ASK FOR IT.

You write: "Hey, looks like we match. Sounds like you have good taste Up to anything fun this week?"

When they respond, "Haha thanks, nah nothing too crazy, dinner with some friends"

You reply:

"Cool, yea, I have a low key week as well, maybe doing (some minor DHV activity)... We should meet up sometime. TheFury xxx-xxx-xxxx"

Yes, transition that abrutly. Yes, its ok on the second message (maybe if you are really not comfortable doing this so far and simply refuse to believe me this is what you should do, ask some dumb question to talk about for another message and then ask em out)

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