So this girl I've been talking to (gotten with, so it's not friendzone bullshit like we often get on here) mentioned a guy from her old work start talking to her again.

At first I didnt care because she said he's such an asshole. But she left me a voicemail saying hey hope we can talk tonight, bc I'd rather talk to you than that guy from work, he's such an asshole.

Obviously theres some attraction between them, she mentioned he was funny before. Whats the BEST way to handle it though?

- You can't make her not hang out with him.
- Don't act jealous.
- But what else? Strawman? (Omg you guys are so gunna get married and have lots of kids / he's the perfect guy / you should date him)


It's hard to deal with coworkers or anyone "new" because they have that mystery and the "does he like me" going for them.

Not good. Woman love assholes and if hes funny and new it could pose a threat. Unless you can take all of her attention away by outshining him. Manipulating her or pushing her away is not good...Bottom line is she has no reason to be loyal to you. Your not dating or anything like that. Put yourself in her shoes. Imagine you have two hot chicks to choose from and the one girl you been hooking up with gets jelouse. What could she do to keep you from not moving forward with the other girl who is giving you attention and teasing you with that sexy ass?

Tough man you might have kill him

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You are correct in assuming that you do not want to tell her she can't hang out with him. And you definitely don't want to be the jealous type. In fact, you want to come off as if it does not bother you. That you are totally confident that she has a male friend that wants to get in her pants. This asshole should not intimidate you.

What I would suggest in this difficult situation? Turn the tables. Present a situation where you have options. Talk to another woman. It could be an old or new friend. You don't have to date this woman but you do need to represent some value. You don't want to give the impression that you are just going to wait around for this other woman as she talks to the asshole. That does not put you in a positive light.

Additionally, you just need to continue to throw your game. Be confident. Be the Alpha male. This is the only way that you will "out-duel" this asshole.

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