I know that feeling bro, but don't do it for your parents, do it because of you!
You have to change your lifestyle in order to achieve what you want... girls!
You have a long road, but i believe that if you effort you can get what you want!
Just don't get depressed by that, at the beginning it'll most all most of the time just fails, just deal with it, i usually made fun of that, we can live with fails, right?
What i recommend you:
- Search over youtube: Pua, pickup girls, infield spycam.
- Download "The pickup artist" Season 1 and 2 (it's more like a reality show but you might like it!
- Search for PUA, pickup on piratebay (some of them are porn, avoid them, or not, it depends on you
)
- Try to understand the meaning of PUA terms, like: HB9 (hot babe
9/10), Set (group of people, girls or boys), Daygame, Nightgame, PUA (pickup artist), neg, teasing...
- Try to understand the difference between Neg'ing and Teasing.
- Try to understand when you should neg girls and when you shouldn't.
- Try to understand when the girl is not interested or uncomfortable.
- Don't game girls by sms or facebook, forget that shit!
- Don't read "The game" book, it's just a waste of time, the book is just a biography of Neil Strauss, it's not going to give you shit.
Best tip so far:
Don't try to pickup girls that you already know, once friendzoned forever friendzoned!
And believe me you are not able to fit PUA techniques into them, because to become a PUA you have to change how you are and they'll notice that something is wrong with you and sometimes they are fucking direct saying: Wtf are you doing?!
Then you'll start to think that you are doing PUA tecs wrong but you don't, it's their problem not yours. I tried to do this at the beginning because it would be much easier since i already knew the girls and i haven't to approach them and become awkward with it... but at that point i knew a girl on a course that i was taking, and a new girl = a new experiences, so i gamer her and it worked pretty awesome.... she accepted everything that i said and did, and i realize the reason for that, which was: she don't know me, i can become what i want to be and she wouldn't know if i'm acting different compares to what i really am. So believe me, i know what I'm saying!
We are not going to help you much, you just have to study this PUA things and then when you have questions just put it here on the forum.
It's like when you are at school and the teacher asks: What you didn't understand?, you can't say: Everything =) so, study first and then came back, otherwise as you can understand you are not going to help you, is not that we don't want to (well some wouldn't) but you have to show that you are putting effort on this.
Best of luck
CHAT
. My parents are beginning to think something is wrong with me that I have not had a girlfriend yet, they think i should be going out on dates with girls now. I have been told i am not a bad looking guy from girls all the time but i just cannot seem to attract girls in the dating sort of way some please help!!