Hi there,

I used to be quiet involved here a few years back and it was quiet some fun... Now it all changed, let's see what happens. Not sure where I had to post this as I used to be posting pretty much only in the relationship section, I chose natural game because it's more my style. Feel free to move this around if needed.

Here we go:

I kissed this ravishing lady a few weeks ago at a local concert. We met on the balcony and made a very strong impression I believe, talked really natural and spot on, used kino and as for the last hour I was there she would not let go of me and kept holding me by the waist, which was quiet nice. She kept repeating in my ear things like "Oh god I like you, I like you..". She was for sure quiet under the effects of alcohol and she cried on my shoulder, made me know that she was not happy about her present life. When the gig ended, she wanted me to walk her back to her car as she wanted to "say goodbye". So I walked with her and gave her a nice kiss on the lips as she was all smiley and happy that she's met me. I could absolutely have french kissed her but I though I'd keep that for later as she gave me her phone number for an eventual date the next day.

The next day I texted her and she replied that all she needs at the moment is friends as she just broke up with her man. Her man is obviously not very cluey on how to deal with a woman as she appeared to be a total mess, the poor thing. So I refused her proposal to go for a bush walk wit her and her friend Brigitte saying that I will pass on the ladies walk for this time. Then I called again a few days later and it seems that she got back with BF. I was expecting this. So I let 2 weeks to pass on.

I texted her last week to check how she was going and answered: "Hi im good thanks, how are you? my boyfriend and i have been trying to work on things. Though honesty is the best policy"

This indicated me that she is betaizing the BF.... exactly what I was expecting to happen. So she's ripe to pickup isn't she.. but it's not exactly a green light at the same time.

So at this stage I am thinking that I should still call her every now and then to check how she's going, I don't want to let her go as she really would really be a perfect new LTR for me as she dresses nice and dark, seems really sexual.. a bit older than what I prefer (she's 36 I think and I would be only 5 years older) but I though, what the hell... she's perfect ...so I will chase her down the best I can.

Any ideas of how to conduct the chase are welcome friends.

R_III

PS: Would love to help others in return if I get help but have got not much time to post here anymore, so I will do an effort and reply to one or two, hoping it makes everyone happy.

Why didn't you bang her the night you met her?

She already said she has a BF, are trying to work things out, and that honesty is the best policy.

She is not perfect. She is not a princess. You are the prize. Get that through your head.

Hopefully your kind is not what is predominantly populating this forum nowdays, no offence but I'll pass on this one.

And please, mon ami, for further references watch your words.

... still no answer after a week, I suppose I will have to deal with this on my own, it would have had been fun hearing a few relevant opinions, but oh well, my life is way too much fun in the first place anyway.

You're right , she is betaizing him, but from what I understand from your post, you're going to wait until she is done with him to make a move? Why wait.. make your move now. If she is really attracted to you as you say, and having troubles with her BF, she should be yours if you play your game right. I say go for it, and you'll either succeed or fail, however atleast you'll get it out of your system. also by just calling her randomly and having chitchats , youre not making your intentions clear, which lead to friend zone.

ps: from personal experience I wouldn't want this girl for an LTR because she will get back with her BF even if she goes with you, and thats a lost case because it'll bring drama, however I hope this is not the case, I think it is. Good luck and keep us posted!

I'll tell you... Your first problem is you are CHASING after a girl. Fuck that, let her chase after you. You are allowing yourself to be a contingency if she happens to be unable to rekindle the relationship with her current boyfriend. You are the one being beta.

Second, are you trying to be this girls therapist or what? Again, let her come after you. Go game other women and quit waiting around for this one.

Thanks gents for your opinions on strategics.

Not sure why the Joker says that I have to wait she calls. If she looks up on me then she has all the reasons to be shy and thinking that I moved her on already therefore that I would not give a flying turd about it. Remember she saw me only once.

Personally I dislike having females chasing me and usually do not like them having my phone number as they always call when I'm on the ladder.

Will give her a call during the week when she's at work to be sure she is not in company.

Be right back.

Too many excuses , not enough action....

True thing mon ami. But sometimes you really got to be patient and wait for the time to be right.

Did a move yesterday, positive response. Guess it was wise to hide in the bushes for a bit.

Will see how it goes...

Here found a sms to html converter.. So I joined the txt historic, back from day one.

I think she''l pull out okay

https://www.dropbox.com/s/0a9tt2pddzuk0 ... 30623.html

I would've hung out with her after the concert. You totally could have dude. And deep down, you probably knew, but were afraid to take the "risk". Listen, if there's one thing I've learned so far about pickup, it's that you must be willing to risk the girl in order to get her. At first, this might seem very counter intuitive, but it pays off in the end.

You also mention that you don't like girls chasing you. No offense, but I think you might be on the wrong forum then. Haha, we all want validation. No matter how you slice it. What's more important than that though, all together, is enjoying life and sharing all of these great experiences with the people we enjoy. You'll never find those girls if you don't allow yourself to. Good luck.

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Perspective of post gig hang out was rejected earlier, don't worry I've tried that. Plus I was way too drunk to be able to handle more of it.

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R_III

If for some reason you really want this particular girl, the best way to steal her from her on-and-off again BF is by doing the following.

When a girl is in a turmoilous relationship like what you described, she likes to keep a few guys on the side as options in case it really doesn't work out, and for validation that she's still wanted. Ususally the girls only text these guys when they've had fights with their bfs and need some quick validation. Most of the beta guys that are on this type of list reply back with beta comments, and thus are kept in that "validate me friends" zone.

What you need to do to be different then them is run text game, spread out the times you text her to days, and even go a full week or so sometimes. But each time you text her, make it fun and playful, thorw in subtle innuendo in there too that she can pick up on. Keep pining her like this until you slowly grown on her mind.

When the time comes that she's had a big fight with her BF, or is feeling emotionally drained towards the relationship. She will want to act out in revenge or spontaneity. She will ping you or reply differently than she has before. Your goal from here is to lead the interaction to more, invite her out for dinner at your place and wine. Or for drinks at the bar. From there on out making the moves will be alot easier since you've spent the time building comfort and attraction with her.

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Yes thank you very much. I know all this very well. It's good you post this anyway for external readers.

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