Ok so here is the short story:
There is this girl. She knows that i love her (I told her) and i know that she had feelings for me too. But because i messed it up (didnt do anything for to long, no kiss no nothing) she told me that she only wants to be friends for now even though she really likes me. See my other posts for more details...

Anyways... for some reason it feels like she starts playing games now. Every time we´re together we get really really close. Even when we talk we´re face to face all the time (Even at work! We work in the same place with a lot of customer contact!). She accepts touching, petting (arms, back, face!) and texts me messages with kiss smilies and hearts and what not... But when i ask her for a date she always says "i dont know" or "i dont have time that day" so it feels like she is trying to avoid a direct date but enjoys my attention anyways... And like i said she knows exactly how me feelings are for her... This girl is driving me crazy. Seriously. My plan is to go for it next time i get her on a date. So touch touch touch and of course k-close finally!
I have no idea what she is doing or thinking... I dont really know what to do now.

Next time she gets her face close to you when talking, just kiss her right then. She's offering you the chance to be a man. So nut up and kiss her. Don't hesitate.

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Well of course i will! But i cant kiss her at work obviously! We´re working in a place with other colleagues and many customers. Its just not possible at work...But yeah...Next time i have her on a date...I will kiss her and see what happens. But still... i dont know whats wrong with her

Go no contact with her and even though you work with her only say hi and bye. Your to needy and way to available for her which is why she's playing mind games and not accepting any of your date invites. Think about it she already knows she can have you whenever she wants and girls don't like sure things. Go 0 to very little contact with her and I guarantee you'll start to have the upper hand after a week or 2 as long as you don't go back to being straight needy when she gives you some attention, you should have more going on in your life than just this chick.

It isn't her. It's you. You are the man and you should've escalated long ago. Themagicalone gave you some solid advice.

Good luck.

Yeah, dude said it well.

Hmm... okay thanks for the advice! I should try this.
Thats where the problem starts... Honestly there IS nothing else in my life... Thats why it will be so hard for me not to contact her and stuff. But i always try not to make it that obvious for her. Yesterday i told her that im texting with other girls and she was like "ah...sure..." as if she knew it was a lie

One last question... Cut the contact is alright. How to act if she starts texting me again? Like i said. Without any obvious reason she sends me kiss smilies or some. What do i reply to that? Or do i reply to that at all? I know when i dont text her back anything at all she will be pissed...

Don't reply period. She is doing this as a way to confirm that she has you on a leash. Let her send all the kisses and smiles she wants - text/call her on your terms.

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Exactly. And OP game other girls that's why you don't have any other thing in your life your throwing everything on one chick. Go game many other chicks and this girl won't seem near important after awhile.

One-itis
GFTOW
Solidify your game
Hit her up after you have seen that there are plenty of fish in the sea.

Always remember that she's just a big fish in a small pond. Go fish in the sea!

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