Hey guys!

To start off, I talked about this girl a lot. In a lot of posts.

TLDR: We hooked up a month later after a college party where we made out. The sex sucked due to whiskey dick and cottonmouth from getting krunk. She flaked afterwards, I sent her stupid shit like, “Come lets fuck”. No reply, I waited a month (did not listen to your suggestions ) and

asked her if she wanted to go hiking with me. She texted me the following.

“Hey ****, I'm actually planning on writing a paper this weekend because I'm going to be tied up next week, which is when it's due >:(. But I just want you to know I'm not trying to ignore you and be a bitch or anything, I'm just at a busy point in my life and am trying to enjoy and adjust to being single still, I've just had so much guy drama it's ludicrous! With that said I would enjoy just hanging out with you, without the sexual pressure haha. I think the best thing for me right now is to make solely friend relationships. In other words, I'd like to be friends and just be chill if you're down for that!”

Now, she is cool and I would love to hangout with her as friends too (Hot chicks attract other hot chicks, and she is HB9 easily) but how do I convey that. I don’t want to rule out sex and I am sure she doesn’t either. There will always be a sexual tension (may be even sex) and I love that stuff. So please help!!!

Also, I have to text her back something soon.

Do you WANT to be in the LJBF's shit?

I say FUCK that! But do as you like.

I would call her out Bro.

"Oh good you can stop shaving your legs and arm pits, and I can be your emotional tampon? "

"Thank's but no thank you "

HB9-HB25 Who the hell cares.

You don't want to hang out with her, quit lying to yourself, you want to fuck her more.

I'm nobody's door mat, are you?

Don't forget the smileys, it will just make her wonder anyway...

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I am quite a busy person and I don't think I will her doormat, as I don't even have the time to be my own doormat. I feel like it is better to tread the fence on shit like this than jump it. I mean, what do I have to loose by saying we are "friends"? If it works out - sex, if not I don't care. I am still not going shopping with her forever 21 or anything like that anyway. Obviously I don't prefer it, but by texting that, I am just going to antagonize myself.

But if you have anything that is more along the same lines but not so obviously polarizing, I am all ears. Either way, thank you.

How about, "That's cool, as long as were are not going to have boy talk or anything close to that But damn girl that is a huge text lol" and maybe "What is this paper on anyway?"

You've been friend zoned. Best thing to do is to just tune up other girls and enjoy yourself. You can hang with this girl again if you like, but just remember to focus on talking to other girls when you are out.

Hang out a few times, hook up with some other cute girls, then maybe down the track when you are hanging out escalate a bit, kiss her but say "oh we can't ruin the friendship blah blah blah" but keep doing it.

But you need to prove you have value, you don't need her and other girls like you first.

I believe you should always be Honest And Direct.

Always be direct and let the woman know your intentions the moment you meet her, it will cut through the bullshit and kill off the time wasting.

Being her friend would just be a waist of time and effort.

Sometimes you just have to say "what the fuck" and get down to it....

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.