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PostPosted: Wed Jun 12, 2013 11:24 pm 
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Hi, I`m a newb so please bear with me.

I had a great date with a girl. Talked for hours and drank beer. Kissed for a few secs, but she has been dealing with another dude for some time, so I`m not sure if she got bad conscience or what kind of feelings she has for him. She said he was a bit boring, but she`s fond of him.
We agreed on meeting soon again.

So I f...d up two days later by texting, coming across as too eager. She answered First Message and wanted to meet next week, but my second message was met with silence. (these texts were prolly a bit AFC) Two days later I texted: Hey! Cinema on thursday? - No answer....

But today she "liked" a post I made on FB that showed some Social Proof. Linking to a newspaper writing about my music. Got many likes from girls on it.

So my question is (sorry for the long post guys): Is she by "liking" friend zoning me or keeping the door open?
Should I contact her again in a week maybe?

Thanks for your patience!


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 13, 2013 12:02 am 
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Hi, I`m a newb so please bear with me.

I had a great date with a girl. Talked for hours and drank beer. Kissed for a few secs, but she has been dealing with another dude for some time, so I`m not sure if she got bad conscience or what kind of feelings she has for him. She said he was a bit boring, but she`s fond of him.
We agreed on meeting soon again.

So I f...d up two days later by texting, coming across as too eager. She answered First Message and wanted to meet next week, but my second message was met with silence. (these texts were prolly a bit AFC) Two days later I texted: Hey! Cinema on thursday? - No answer....

But today she "liked" a post I made on FB that showed some Social Proof. Linking to a newspaper writing about my music. Got many likes from girls on it.

So my question is (sorry for the long post guys): Is she by "liking" friend zoning me or keeping the door open?
Should I contact her again in a week maybe?

Thanks for your patience!
the only way youll know is eventually. keep doing your thing with her but dont be too over eager like you said


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 13, 2013 11:47 am 
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Hi, I`m a newb so please bear with me.

I had a great date with a girl. Talked for hours and drank beer. Kissed for a few secs, but she has been dealing with another dude for some time, so I`m not sure if she got bad conscience or what kind of feelings she has for him. She said he was a bit boring, but she`s fond of him.
We agreed on meeting soon again.

So I f...d up two days later by texting, coming across as too eager. She answered First Message and wanted to meet next week, but my second message was met with silence. (these texts were prolly a bit AFC) Two days later I texted: Hey! Cinema on thursday? - No answer....

But today she "liked" a post I made on FB that showed some Social Proof. Linking to a newspaper writing about my music. Got many likes from girls on it.

So my question is (sorry for the long post guys): Is she by "liking" friend zoning me or keeping the door open?
Should I contact her again in a week maybe?

Thanks for your patience!
You have texted her twice with no response DO NOT TEXT HER AGAIN UNTIL SHE TEXTS YOU. It comes off way to needy now if you text her again. If/When she does text you don't answer for a day or 2 as it will show that your busy. From there set up something 1 on 1, if she doesn't bite MOVE ON.


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PostPosted: Fri Jun 14, 2013 6:07 pm 
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You guys are making things sound very complicated :) . Just, i don't know, call her if you have a reason (that may involve "i don't know, i just wanted to hear you" too) and if you are to plan anything then plan it, if not, just talk to her but don't fake interest into calling her, don't pretend you want to talk to her when you in fact you want to do something else with her ;) .
Anyway, if she's giving you the cold shoulder you're better off going to someone else, or, even better, keep trying and go to someone else at the same time 8) .


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