I met this girl at a club a few days back, made out, exchanged numbers and now set up a day 2. We've spent hours on the phone talking and now that im actually going to see her i feel kind of weird since all we've been doing is talking. Since i prefer to be sexual in person, and dont normally spend hours on the phone we 'got to know each other', shared stories/laughed, but i cant help to think that ive set myself back a bit by altogether avoiding sexualization.

Did i shoot myself in the foot, or is this alright to be saved for in-person situations?
given that, how should i be when i actually see her? (as an aside, im 21 and the girl is 27)

cheers!

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Tease her in a playful manner using info she gave you on the phone and kino escalate almost immediately after you see her. Hold her hands(there are various ways) and move from there over. Take it for granted that she will like it and escalate gradually.

(more advanced people, please help this man!)

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